You actually want a "loose" ******. An open ****** means that the person is aroused. If the ****** is "tight" it means that the person isn't aroused enough and needs more (you can try more foreplay, toys, something different, etc.). Penis size may be factor, but "it's not about size, it's what you do with it." The issue is that he keeps slipping out. It maybe due to his size, but maybe due to his performance. He may be nervous or doesn't exactly know what to do.

Of the 14 comments that preceded yours, about FIVE mentioned penis size, and the only one of these posters to specify gender was… male. But, sure, "all these women". Why not? Regardless of actual penis size or vaginal constriction, it was a douchey, useless thing for him to say when he could just switch positions. It's hardly like she can swap out her ****** for a different one.

I can't tell if you've ruined Thanksgiving for me or made it ten times better…

Sex doesn't make a ****** loose.

That's not what this means... when a woman is aroused, the muscles relax thus making the ****** 'loose'. if she isn't aroused at all, then the ****** would be 'tight'

It's possible she's TOO aroused. Not only would her ****** be more "open" in order to accommodate his penis, but she may be too slippery for him to manage staying in. If he has any skill that wouldn't be an issue, but all combined he could slip out more easily.

Nice way of ignoring the fact that he aired his frustration by insulting her ****** like a little baby.

He didn't need to blame the problem on her. It obviously wasn't her fault

No, people are not saying these things because he was honest. They're saying them because the guy was being an asshole and putting the whole blame on the girl, so they're essentially just turning it around on him. "Oh, she doesn't have a "grippy" enough ******, well maybe your dick is just small." You want to express frustration with sex and communicate, good, I support that fully, but good communication does not start with blaming the other person, it starts with open dialogue and a discussion about how to improve.

@52 just because there's worse ways he could have insulted her, doesn't make what he said okay. I've actually been with a few men who were too small to please me and I NEVER blamed them, didn't even mention their size, we worked on ways to make it better.

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Doesn't really work like that though because a penis can be really small but sex doesn't make a ****** 'loose'. That's a common myth.