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By Anonymous - 19/09/2014 16:06 - Belgium - Poperinge

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Today, my boyfriend broke things off, because he says I have a "horrible, horrible personality" and that I'm only really fuck-buddy material, which is a problem because he wants something long-term. We've been dating for three years. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 197
You deserved it 3 919

Same thing different taste

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He's an asshole, but at least you found out about it 3 years into it and not 30. Hope you find somebody that appreciates you.

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Who cares how long you have been dating? It just means it took him that long to finally find out you have a terrible personality. Him wanting a long term relationship has nothing to do with how long the two of you dated seeing as he doesn't want to date you anymore.

LtBrenton 16

And if the genders in this FML were reversed, it'd be a landslide YDI. #casualsexism (btw, have fun working out whose camp I'm fighting for! :D)

Probably not. I don't think we have enough information to make a proper judgment, no matter what the genders are. Obviously the guy had every right to break up with OP but calling someone "only ****-buddy material" is pretty horrible. And my opinion would be the same if the genders were reversed.

When has that ever happened? In all of the FMLs I've seen where a guy had a horrible girlfriend everyone sided with the guy. Just look at the FML where the guy's girlfriend broke up with him by bringing her new boyfriend to the restaurant he worked at. If your significant other is a dick to you people will side with you regardless of gender on this site. You're clearly either a troll or you need to pick up your fedora and go back to reddit

Clearly he's seeing someone on the side. Get out while you still can from that douchebag

Evidence he's seeing someone else is what exactly? There's no mention of another woman, which given his matter of fact attitude to the break up he probably would have just said "Hey, i'm leaving you for someone else, see ya!" Not everyone is obsessed with having to be in a relationship 24/7 and only breaks up with someone once they've set up a new person to date. Believe it or not, people CAN survive being single.

orsombre_fml 11

OP, you do not deserve that jerk. I know you are in pain and angry right now but obviously you are better off without that moron who is not honest enough to tell you that he cheated on you.

Might want to keep his number in your phone everyone needs a few **** buddies.

He saved you. Go find someone better who won't be a dick. Tell him you can work on your personality but no body can help him with his penis.

Typical bitch comment. What is it with girls like you that think it is OK to criticise a mans penis? Penises grow the way nature intended, there's no way to alter size or girth without radical and dangerous surgery that often doesn't work or isn't permanent. It's as simple as what you're born with is what you have to work with. Men can be just as insecure about their bodies as girls, especially about their penises. How would you like it if a guy made a comment like that about a body part of yours (e.g ******, breasts, face) that you can't change? You're right, people CAN change the way they act, and commenting on someones attitude/personality not being very nice is one thing, but comments about someones appearance is another thing entirely and way, way worse, and there's no excuse for that.

#49 but isn't that just your opinion? I would rather insults about my appearances than about my personality, because I have always believed it's what's on the inside that counts. Everyone has different weak points, so don't assume insults about one's appearance are gonna be "way, way worse" for everyone. On another note though, I do think insulting a man's penis when he breaks up with you because of "a horrible personality" is not only extremely petty, but just kinda reinforces his point. But 43 was clearly just joking around, so why not just chill.

Where in this FML were teenagers mentioned? There's nothing that implies their age. In fact, considering they've been together for three years, they probably aren't teenagers. Also please don't assume that if someone does something immature in a relationship that they must be a teenager. Adults can be idiots too.

What a douche bag! Hope you broke off things with him.

Looks like he found someone else...for him to say that that's it's logical