If you read the FML correctly, you'll see it says "Today, my boyfriend called things off."

I blame the guy because, while that may be true, he didn't have to be such a dick about it. He was completely out of line and it seems as though he wanted to hurt her feelings as much as possible. I mean really, "you have a horrible, horrible personality"? Telling her that she's just **** buddy material? That crosses the line from rudeness to just plain cruelty. Even if he felt that way there are far better ways to break up with someone.

Thank you for this comment. I was thinking the same thing, she could simply have become a crazy overly jealous type of girl or he managed to just ignore that side of her for long enough but couldn't do it anymore. But we don't have his side and OP is a woman so sexism dictates she is the victim.

#29 what the hell are you on about? I am 100% sure that had OP been a guy people would have reacted the exact same way. If you don't believe me then go read the comments on old FMLs where the guys girlfriend had been a complete bitch (such as the one posted a few days ago where the OPs girlfriend brought her new boyfriend to the restaurant he worked at) and you'll see that people more often than not take the guy's side. Even if OP was a terrible girlfriend the way her boyfriend broke up with her was horrible and it's not "sexist" to think so.

True, it was mean, but then it is also possible she has been equally mean to him, and driven him to the point he's just snapped and given her a taste of her own medicine. I've seen so many girls act like complete bitches and bully people, and when you call them out on it they act genuinely shocked like they think they're such amazingly nice people who never did anything bad/wrong. Sometimes you need to state the obvious, telling her she has a horrible, horrible personality could have been warranted if it were true, and the only way to get her listen. We don't know, because we don't know OP. Personally i don't think the **** buddy comment is all that bad. It's complimenting her as a sexual partner, but also, possibly a bit harshly, making it perfectly clear she's not what he personally wants as a girlfriend. One mans trash is another mans treasure, and all that. Yeah, i'm biased to stick up for the guy because i hate females, never met one who wasn't a complete manipulative bitch.

Well said!

I completely agree with 26. If by chance OP had changed and was this horrible person, he still chose to be with her for 3 years. Whatever his reasons were, it was 3 years and she obviously meant more to him then a f buddy. He could've broken up with her without being such a jerk and saying such hurtful things. And again, he's the one that chose to be with her for 3 years, undermining that is just stupid.

To be honest I have only ever seen violent hostility directed at women here

Maybe he lied, maybe it was the truth. Anyway, he should've indeed been more considerate about it. Sometimes people really can be assholes.

Of course no one should feel forced into marrying someone; if they realize after a few years that it definitely won't work, then they should break it off. But while that may be true, I think most readers here are upset about the WAY he dumped her. You can decide you don't want to stay with someone for life without telling them they've got a horrible personality and that they'll never be good for anything but a **** buddy.