Um... I'm really sorry about your dress... Btw, what the fudge (yup, I said fudge) is wrong with people having kids out of marriage? I'm the daughter of an unmarried woman, and the only time she WAS married was when she was with my little brother's dad, not mine. Granted, I'm not the best representative for this discussion since I'm kinda on the weird side, but I wouldn't necessarily blame my mom. I'm GLAD she didn't marry my dad, since he turned out to be a huge jerk and probably would have ended up cheating on and leaving my mom like he did with his last wife. I'm also grateful that she didn't wait until she got married, since I wouldn't be here at all. Marriage doesn't matter when it comes to the quality of a child's life, and God probably still loves all the little babies who coo at their parents weddings just as much as the people standing there shouting judgment on the couple. And I believe he'd forgive someone who had sex outside of marriage, as long as the two people were in love. I think he might get a little mad at people who just go around doing anything that moves, but that's not always the case. Overly religious people piss me off. Once again, sorry about your dress. :( And the fact that people are trying to trample all over you and your daughter just because you have a daughter and you're getting married... :(

What a beotch you have for a daughter!

How did she even get the scissors?? good job mommy...

this story sounds fake, and it's your fault for getting pregnant before marriage and not watching your kid.

you are fukin irresponsible and shudnt hav a daughter in the first place. you are lucky she didn't hurt herself with the scissor.

This is so pathetic. She can't be a **** because she has a two year old daughter. I do believe sex before marriage isn't right, but that's not my place to judge. Wether or not I think it's ok it's Gods place to know what her punishments are and what her blessings are. I'm not commenting on this to preach my religion, but NOBODY has the right to judge this woman. She could have be previously married, the child is two, a lot can happen in two years. My mom got pregnant with me and then devoriced my dad when I was eight months old, and I'm so glad she did. My dad doesn't deserve to have my family, so who's to say the child's dad wasn't a good man after all? My mom got married when I was four, that doesn't mean that she had me before she was married. Just because it's now 2010 and not the 1950's doesn't mean it's perfectly fine to have sex before you're married. That's just like saying "but everyone is doing it". She isn't a ****, having sex before you're married doesn't at all make you a ****. Doing it every single night with a differen't guy makes you a ****, but still you don't know that persons background so you have no place to jugde them. Who knows maybe she used to go sleeping around and thats how she conceived her child but does it really matter?? Now she HOPEFULLY has a loving husband for herself and a loving father for her child and thats all that really matters. Her past is HER past, she has to deal with the consiquences. As for having the scissors where the two-year-old could get to them, shit happens. I babysat a three-year-old once and I thought there was some un-welcomed person in the house while the kids were asleep, so I had a friend come over and he grabbed scissors for "protection" and went looking around the house. After he looked everywhere he set the scissors on the counter. We talked for about an hour, he left and I went to sleep. When I woke up, the three-year-old had cut her hair with the scissor, that were out of her reach. You can't always keep things away from children, but you can TRY. Just because the scissors were out where the child could get them that doesn't mean she isn't a good parent, but once again is that your place to judge?

You can cut through the plastic bags that dresses are put in..

You people should stop assuming. Maybe she had previously divorced and is getting married again. Ok, maybe OP deserved it cause she left scissors out but that is still messed up.

this is why you don't have children out of wedlock... (x

maybe that was a sign ......