Intimacy: Talk to me

Talk to me

By iMarriedmymother - 07/11/2009 07:06 - United States

Today, my wife told me she had stopped taking her anti-depressants a month ago in hopes of increasing her non-existent sex drive. I asked her if it had helped, and was about to suggest she start taking them again for her own wellbeing. She replied with, "Anyway, I'm just not attracted to you." FML

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By Anonymous - 24/04/2016 12:46 - Switzerland - Chur

Today, my wife is treating me like I'm the devil, all because I refused to go on medication that would kill my sex drive, just so she wouldn't have to deal with me actually wanting to make love more than once a year. FML

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By Bill Mantie - 18/04/2021 02:00

Today, after months of successfully taking strides to boost my long diminished libido, I found out my girlfriend, who always had a healthy sex drive, has now lost hers. Oh, how the tables have turned. FML

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By Anonymous - 28/09/2023 04:00

Today, my wife lost interest in sex a long time ago. I’ve tried to reignite her interest lately, which culminated in an argument where she gave me permission to go out and shag other women. We might as well divorce at this point if she’s going to say things like that. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/12/2020 08:02

Today, after close to 10 years of marriage, my wife’s health has improved enough she is craving sex again. Just not with me. FML

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By Homunculus1 - 21/10/2022 14:00

Today, my wife admitted she loves me as a father to our children, but is no longer attracted to me. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/04/2020 20:00

Today, I realised my wife has been slowly phasing out most elements of our previously active and inventive sex life. These days, it's missionary once a month or she tells me to whack one off by myself in the bathroom. When did we get so boring? FML

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By Pinsky - 24/04/2022 18:00

Today, my wife told me she is no longer sexually attracted to me. She also can’t understand why I still don’t want to go on her 35th birthday trip to London. FML

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So frustrating!

By Marvin-jones - 02/03/2023 02:00

Today, my wife accused me of using her for sex. I'd only just admitted to her two days ago that I've been struggling to get it up to try and perform, after a hospital stay and a month of almost no sexual contact. FML

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Libido says no

By Anonymous - 16/08/2021 05:01 - United Kingdom - Norwich

Today, I discovered my girlfriend of 5 years would rather split up than make any shred of effort to revive her utterly dead libido from the last 2 years. She promised the whole past month to make an effort, before admitting she never gave a shit when my patience with her ran out. FML

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Technique

By Anonymous - 20/08/2020 23:02

Today, I figured out the best way to endure my wife's lack of sex drive: whenever she complains, I lose the urge myself. Works like a charm, because she complains all the time. FML

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amatayo 0

Saturday 7 November 2009 13:21

To be told by the woman you love that she just does not feel that way anymore. wow FYL

PhillyFox 0

Saturday 7 November 2009 15:58

That sucks. Depression really takes away your sex drive in general, along with the ability to be physically attracted to others. It sounds like the depression talking. Maybe she should ask her doctor about trying a new therapy?

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gogogoalie 0

Saturday 21 November 2009 4:57

dude thats TOTAL bullshit. i totally feel you. my ex broke up with me because of that and she was also on like anti-depressants and you know its just bullshit you work so hard to make them feel better and then they totally stab you in the back. im so sorry. youre not the only one i guess. **** her

Coffee4lunch 0

Monday 30 November 2009 8:21

i dont get girls that have no sex drive...my gf has none either. fml as well

Senken_ 0

Monday 30 November 2009 18:50

your wife is a bitch. there are 3 options 1) rape her. It will spark the flame back in her sex drive 2) dump her ass like the bitch she is 3)do both

BruceBanner 0

Tuesday 1 December 2009 11:24

thats complete and utter bullshit that queen B needs a big ass dose of reality i really feel for you because im am also in a one sided sexdrive marriage really sux bro all i can say is cant nobody love you like you once you realize that you will begin to see that there are sooooo many fish in the sea fish with drive like a trucker ALL NIGHT LONG you dont need her!!!

Nickelly 0

Friday 8 January 2010 23:06

that's horrible man!!!!

TheFlyingPidgeon 0

Tuesday 20 April 2010 15:36

You know, when someone takes medication for a long period, the secondary effects, like a lower sex drive, take some time to wear off. You shouldn't expect your wife to be in the mood so soon. Also, stopping anti depressants is not an easy process. It takes time and patience and it might fail several times before one could successfully recover a normal life without them and some people might just not be able to. If she encounters difficulties in the process, she might just get back to her depressed state and consequently be likely to answer abruptly to your demands. I understand that her answer was very offensive, but if you love her, you'll understand and try to help her while she needs it. Good luck!