The place to be

By jessicab72 - 15/05/2014 20:38 - United States - Cuyahoga Falls

Today, I got into THE party of the year. Too bad it was the party my daughter was throwing while her father and I were out of town. FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 223
You deserved it 5 599

Same thing different taste

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Time to give her THE grounding of the year.

Sounds like your daughter still needs a babysitter. I hope next time you send her to stay with a friend or relative.

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rocker_chick23 27

I hope you told the party goers to clean up and leave, then grounded your daughter.

EmsyyyRose13 24

I think the daughter should do most, if not all, of the clean-up.

It was a welcome home party. Surprise!

rocker_chick23 27

No it's not. They came home while the party was going on. What's confusing about that?

Every kid has to get busted for something. Hopefully, this is the worst thing your daughter ever does

If your daughter didn't want you to know she shouldn't have put you on the list

Hey, at least you know your daughter threw THE party of the year. A congratulations is in order before THE grounding of the year

*GASP* So? Every kid does something. The people who are talking about grounding her and spying on her either never got their umbilical cord cut or are those parents whose own kids end up not trusting the slighest bit. Sure, talk to her, but it's no big deal.

It is a big deal when your kids dont respect your house and rules . that party could've of gotten out of control there could've of been drinking, injuries etc and the parents would've have been held responsible since its there house. so I can see why they aren't thrilled to come home to unsupervised party .

rocker_chick23 27

Um..It's a big ******* deal. It shows that she is untrustworthy and clearly not old enough to stay home alone by herself. What if there was underage drinking or someone got hurt?

#24 trust is earned not just automatically given and OP'S daughter has definitely proven that she does not deserve it and just talking to her isn't going to do anything but grounding her probably will she needs to know her actions have consequences.

TheDrifter 23

First there's the liability if someone gets injured or overdoses. Not to mention the amount of theft and damage done by a big school age party to the house hosting it. There's a reason parents don't like kids throwing parties at their home.

Then they shouldn't have left. Grounding won't do anything. It'll just teach her to hide that stuff better next time.

So, what your saying #69, is that the parents essentially have to ground themselves and never go out anywhere for any significant amount of time, just in case their daughter throws another party or does something else equally stupid.

No, that's not what I'm saying. If you leave, you have to understand that your child has the OPTION of doing something you may not be happy about. If you're not okay with that option existing, don't make it your child's responsibility to destroy it. Every (normally developed) person does something his or her parents would prefer they didn't -- c'est la vie. I'm saying it's not the event of the century.

EmsyyyRose13 24

Wow. How irresponsible of her. She's going to have a hard time earning your trust back any time soon. I don't understand why people feel the need to throw a party in a house they do not own without getting permission first.

omg people its really not that confusing ! the parents came home early without out the daughter know ( perhaps to surprise her) only the parents were the ones that were surprised when they came home to a party that shouldnt of happened.