The road to Hell is paved with good intentions

By Anonymous - 22/04/2017 23:00 - United Kingdom

Today, my best female friend got dumped. Seeing how I was alone when I got dumped, I didn't want her to feel the same, so I was nice to her and tried to help her as much as I could. I've now been getting constant messages from our mutual friends, telling me to stop hitting on her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 4 989
You deserved it 536

Same thing different taste

Top comments

cloudking 5

I think telling your mutual friends to "shut the **** up" is acceptable here

Druu 53

Come on, man. We both know you're not supposed to offer to help her get off.

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Casually remind them that being nice to somebody doesn't mean you're interested in them romantically.

To use a basketball analogy, you're going for a rebound, so you have to get past your "friends" and take it to the hole. So to speak.

RedPillSucks 31

if she thinks there's a problem then she will/should tell you directly. it's not really any of your mutual friends business.

some people just don't understand platonic friendships. you're a good man, op!

If they are saying that to you I would think she is mentioning you to them. and SHE thinks you are hitting on her.

Don't give a shit at what they think, standing for a friend in need is much important than such mutual A-HOLES...

I am going through the same thing OP. I'm trying to support a friend who lost her first boyfriend after two years who also was her best friend.