Weddings, Awkward and Love: This is going to be fun

isn't that kinda the final 'we're over and never ever getting back together' by forcing her ex to watch her get married to someone else? You won, use this time to rub it in his face. And on the off chance she does run off with him then its better that it happened right before the marriage was finalized instead of years later when you have a house and kid and all that. Just try to stay positive and don't let it ruin your happy day.

blueknight1st 26

Tuesday 17 April 2012 23:13

This is where you grow some balls and tell your bride to be that there is no way in hell her ex husband is allowed to be at the wedding.

KiddNYC1O 20

Tuesday 17 April 2012 23:57

Cockblocks.

bigmackin35 0

Wednesday 18 April 2012 1:32

**** that shit

iwadasn 32

Wednesday 18 April 2012 1:42

Does she have kids with him? Because if she does, I could see why the kids would want their dad at their mom's wedding.

JS721 1

Wednesday 18 April 2012 2:58

So? She loves you now not him. Don't be jealous.

hereinnc 12

Wednesday 18 April 2012 3:50

There was zero way to weed through all the angry comments. My 2 cents... my ex and I were married for 12 years. We have 2 children together. After the initial breakup it was difficult to say the least. However now that a few years have passed we are quite amicable as friends. I still value his input on many issues. We were not compatible as husband and wife no... however we are compatible as friends, and as parents we will remain that way. It is of no use to hate on one other when we are mutually raising 2 people to adulthood. Hatred has no place in that. Not every divorce has to be ugly. Talk to your soon to be spouse she might not view her ex as this evil person that you assume him to be. He is her ex for a reason and you should not view him as a threat.

RendarSelin 5

Thursday 19 April 2012 0:49

Very well said! I might not be on that good a level with my ex-wife, but we have a wonderful little boy together, and while we're not the best of friends, we're on good terms. If they have any children together, they will always be connected, divorced or no. I agree that maybe the OP's fiance should have had a discussion before the invite, but maybe they're on terms to the point where the only awkwardness is with the OP. (Or maybe the OP's fiance is just a spiteful POS...)

dacuar 0

Wednesday 18 April 2012 4:16

Get rid of that bitch,now!

FukUrDreamz 0

Wednesday 18 April 2012 4:31

Honestly OP this is kind of a red flag. ur position of respect is obviously not on the same level as her parents and seems like her ex for that matter. sometimes u gotta show who's the top dog is in the pack, apparently they don't think u can do that and if you can't then maybe you shouldn't get married. your entering a stage where u need to lead ur family (the one u and ur wife will make) and if u can't stand up for urself now & show who's got the balls..I promise u will get run over til death do u part.