Mans a twat !! From 11 year together and an 8 year engagement he had almost 20 years to say something and didn’t he’s just complete shit and I’m sorry hon!

Im guessing that wasn’t your birthday wish

Sounds like he has a romanticised idea of the previous relationship that real life, especially with kids, can never live up to. Reality will find that relationship, too. So sorry he treated you that way, OP. I hope he’s a better dad than he was a husband.

there are no words. that is utterly heartbreaking and I am so sorry. Thinking of you OP.

If you are just married for 3.5 months now, he really could have used the opportunity of setting up a marriage ceremony to end the relationship. Why go through with it anyways? I mean it's inevitable that relationships come to a breaking point, but at least have some decency when breaking up.

so how do you feel about your life choices?

People can be so selfish. Mine left me after eight years of marriage to move in with a 22 year old he’s known for six months because “he’s in love”. But don’t worry, they always find out the grass isn’t greener and when he tries to come back, because they always do, you can laugh and slam the door in his face 😊👍🏻

Get that child support and alimony!!!! 💪🤪

No the kids go with him. She will not be his soul mate for long.

If the mom didn’t die of illness, this is how How I Met Your Mother would have ended