Love: Today, after a week of intense fighting, my girlfriend of 4 years...

By thanksbabe - 12/01/2013 06:32 - United States

Today, after a week of intense fighting, my girlfriend of 4 years and I hung out. She told me she loved me, and I pointed out that last week she said she was going to dump me. Without missing a beat, she replied, "Only to scare you into submission." FML

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Today, my girlfriend confessed that she was scared that she was more in love with me than I was in her, and that she was afraid I would leave her. So she left me instead. I'd been thinking about proposing. FML

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By Anonymous - 19/10/2009 23:51 - Canada

Today, my girlfriend and I got into a huge fight. She kicked me out of the apartment and told me to never come back. Devastated, I waited outside of the apartment door for hours, hoping she'd reconsider. I ended up falling asleep. I woke up to her foot stomping on me, screaming, "I meant it!" FML

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By Autocorrected - 04/03/2012 05:02 - Philippines

Today, my girlfriend broke up with me through a text message. In retaliation, I started typing a long list of everything I hate about her. Just as I pressed the send button, she text me again saying "Just joking. You know I'd never leave you. Love you babe :)" FML

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By hungryman - 14/07/2009 21:10 - Canada

Today, my girlfriend's mom pulled me aside and started telling me about how her daughter was extremely depressed and suicidal before she met me, and how happy her family is because of me. I was planning on breaking up with her within the next week. FML

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By Username - 20/08/2011 09:20 - United States

Today, the girl of my dreams that I've been dating for months called me. Apparently she's been having recurring nightmares of me cheating on her. She dumped me "just in case." FML

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By Afroman720 - 27/07/2015 18:55 - United States

Today, my girlfriend dumped me because her dog "told her to". FML

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By ouch - 29/03/2011 03:33 - United States

Today, my girlfriend and I were playfully arguing about who loved the other more. After about a minute of this, my girlfriend walked over and kicked me in the crotch as hard as she could. She then said, "There, now you don't love me as much. I win." FML

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By Anonymous - 01/08/2013 07:36 - United States - Goodyear

Today, my girlfriend of 3 weeks gave me an ultimatum: marry her, or she kills herself. FML

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By mike - 07/02/2010 07:16 - United States

Today, I found out that my girlfriend of one week is suicidal and crazy about me. She showed me that she'd carved her old boyfriend's name in her arm, and she threatened suicide if I ever left her. FML

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gracehi 31

Saturday 12 January 2013 12:44

I won't be popular for saying this, but dump her. Manipulating you with the threat of leaving you is not ok. My ex used to do that. He threatened to leave me every time I wouldn't do what he wanted, even with dumb shit, like refusing to buy him a beer. One day I finally said, "Fine. There's the door." He just whined that I didn't care and didn't even move from the spot where he was. He never threatened to leave me again. I suggest that next time she threatens to dump you, call her on her bluff. If she dumps you, good riddance. If not, she won't be manipulating that way again.

SerpentBoy 8

Saturday 12 January 2013 12:20

Stand your ground boss, or she will want to control you forever..

Comments

mistercrow 9

Saturday 12 January 2013 18:15

Yikes...I hope she doesn't hit you 0.o If she does anything like that...it does not mean she loves you no matter what she says! And also remember to have the domestic abuse hotline in your contacts. Good luck OP

dwc2134 5

Saturday 12 January 2013 18:35

Get the **** out now. I don't care how much you love her or think you love her, this will only get worse and make you more miserable then you could possibly imagine in the long run. Run, run, as fast as you can.

spikekutter 9

Saturday 12 January 2013 19:03

it sounds like a nightmare..

Alleged_Cranium 7

Saturday 12 January 2013 19:23

Leave. There are plenty of other holes out there.

Hizodge 4

Saturday 12 January 2013 19:51

Sounds like a relationship that wasn't meant to be. Week long fights, and having some one threaten your relationship to gain control over you are terrible.

lovecrazy12 14

Saturday 12 January 2013 19:59

It's been 4 years! You don't just throw 4 years away. Maybe it's been a stable relationship and they had an issue. All normal relationships have problems at some point. Have you thought maybe she wasn't serious???

oh_noeziez 1

Saturday 12 January 2013 20:49

YDI. Your first time hanging out after "intense fighting" and it sounds like you wanted to pick a fight when she says she loves you. I wouldn't blame her for being snarky.

Obryn 9

Saturday 12 January 2013 20:52

Run away!

jaxv95 7

Saturday 12 January 2013 21:56

At least we'll know you would submit to her in bed

kalbrek009 20

Saturday 12 January 2013 23:27

If she's gonna power play like that...get out now! Next may come actual physical abuse.. Don't do like I did & spend nearly 13 yrs being treated like something to be dominated & abused...it's not worth it. I later found the love of my life whom I've been happily married to for 3 yrs now. You'll find yours.