nothing wrong with being. prepared.

Paranoid much?

Nothing that a shovel, a .45, and a bottle of good bourbon can't solve

You should get a girlfriend, you know "just in case" :)

Sounds like my husband lol

I know alot people said dont divorce her, because you guys have been together so long .but could you really stay with her knowing that she has been doing this behind your back ,and will most likely do it again .maybe a seperation is a good idea to give you two some time to see if you still want to be together, or if you two want to explore different options.

I would say ask her what she would think if you made a profile on multiple sites and talked to others just in case it didn't work out. Either she will say she doesn't care and you make them cause she is calling your bluff or she will see your point and pull her profile off the last choice will be she will admit she wants a divorce. Her actions of these back up plans this late in the relationship though are signs that she wants to bail but doesn't want to tell you or that she is cheating. Maybe she wants an open marriage. This is where communication comes into play

just in case you should look around and see whats good too.

So you found out when you came across her profile on the sites??

A lot of negative comments on this post..