How did you find out that she has profiles on multiple sites? Are you thinking of cheating on her? I think you need to have a talk with each other and maybe visit a marriage counselor. Something is clearly wrong here.

You need to open an account and reply to her pages.

Why are so many people jumping to the conclusion that he found out by coming across her profile on his own romp through dating sites? I can see a few ways he could find out honestly: either A) she spills the beans, B) he saw her using the sites with his eyes and then she spilled the beans once she knew the jig was up, C) a friend of hers who knew told him. Really, have you never met an honest man in your life?!

Wowza... What a joke. Clearly divorce would be an acceptable option. She's waiting for it.. So why not? Kinda funny how anyone would even slam the divorce idea.

My step-dad has the same thing going on; his mailbox is crammed weekly with dating site responses and male enhancement spam. Now I have to wait until either: A) He admits it to Mom, or B) Mom starts believing me/stops living in denial

There are a lot of negative comments, but some of them are better advice than I could ever give. Yeah, definitely just be honest.

you need to talk to her and get that under control! thats a bad sign that means shes looking for someone else because she is unhappy... this will sounds bad but i did the same thing because i was angry that my husband didnt pay attention to me. we talked it out and got rid of the accounts and everything has been perfect since then.

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