By Anonymous - 19/10/2012 02:49 - Canada - Regina

Today, after being totally in love with a guy since middle school, I finally had enough self confidence to go and talk to him. Turns out he's boring as fuck. I obsessed over this guy for nearly 4 years. FML
I agree, your life sucks 12 997
You deserved it 37 190

Same thing different taste

Top comments

That's what you get for putting some guy you barely know on a pedestal.

It's pretty pointless to be "in love" with somebody you don't know.

Comments

afkwarrior 25

Why the **** do you think you love someone without having ever spoken with them first?

How are you in love if you've never talked to him?

magnetic_aura 26

Better to know now! Move on to people you actually have things in common with!

You definitely deserved that, you're not "in love" with him if you didn't know him personally, you just had a crush. Big difference.

you're be delusional, hes probably either really nervous and doesn't know what to talk about or just doesn't have a interest in you

maroongrad 13

Never make that sort of decision after one or two conversations. Some guys take several weeks before they're comfortable enough to relax and be themselves around you. If you have gone on several dates and nothing has changed and no real personality has peeked out, or if he's done something to offend you and make you actively dislike him, then break up. But...it's not unusual for a guy to be nervous about a girl he likes and, in trying not to embarrass himself, comes off as boring, too quiet, etc. Sometimes they are just a lump of boring nothing. Sometimes they're a good guy who is just a little overwhelmed by dating you and needs a few smiles to come out of their shell and wow you. YDI if you are jumping to this conclusion after talking to a guy ONCE, especially after being so interested for so long.