17- My God! You, a woman, has figured that Men aren't telepathic!? Oh thank you for understanding!!! ;D *Tease!* Actually, I do agree with you though, subtle doesn't work with men a lot, sorry. :p Clear and definite, always preferred, thanks. :) (Of course, if my wife didn't normally wear sexy undies, and suddenly one day she does, I'd say something nice about it to encourage that behaviour, but maybe that's just me!) ;)

Live & learn, my friend... live & learn. ;) I've had enough of those "how did you not realize ...." conversations with my husband to finally give up on the subtle approach, and just be straightforward.

If her husband doesn't link a sexy outfit with 'wife wants sex', I sincerely doubt the sneaking up and whiskering in his ear part will be effective. Yes, men can't read subtle signals as good as women, but come on, since when is wearing (probably) very sexy lingerie a subtle signal? In my opinion, it's difficult to be more straightforward than that.

Dj, OP says "cute" outfit, which doesn't lead me to believe she threw on a pair of crotchless panties and a sexy bra. The suggestion of "whispering in his ear" is made effective and extremely straightforward by what she says while whispering; in the case of my suggestion ("I want you, now"), the whispering would be much more obvious than throwing on a cute outfit.

17, you should start a school for women, or on the inverse for men, I hate subtle crap I always miss it

If she wasn't sitting on his face it was too subtle.

Giggity

Maybe my husband is just different, but regardless of if the outfit I throw on is "cute" or "sexy" he knows that it means that I want sex.

Wouldve been funnier if you wouldnt of precised :) but still deserves a thumbs up ;)

Learn to spell. And maybe she never "passed him up" and you're just being a douchebag. Payback's a bitch, isn't it Sweet cheeks?

I hope that's sarcasm.

How did you come to that conclusion? She did this because she was feeling sexy and was getting her figure back. I don't see how you could automatically come to the conclusion that not only the OP but nearly all women think about is sex. Also there are FMLs where the guy is turned down for sex.

He's just bitter they aren't interested in sex with him.

Right? I feel so objectified! ;)

Op's husband probably feels so used and abused!

Maybe.

Took the words right out of your ass, didn't you? *shoves face in it* No, no, no, we do that outside! Bad assumption, bad!

I'm going to make the wild assumption that you're not married.

I've been married 8 years. I wouldn't be so much of an asshole to turn my wife down under this set of circumstances however some men are assholes. As a man I can help provide some perspective. I'm just different to many men as I believe in employing emotions from time to time. Others don't.