By jealousgirl - 16/07/2015 21:00 - United Kingdom

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Today, after having to spend over an hour yesterday giving the man I'm in love with advice on how to impress his date yesterday evening, I got to spend another hour listening to how great their sex was last night. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 453
You deserved it 8 123

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Well, if you couldn't woman up and just tell him how you feel, you can't exactly complain when he dates other people.

The friend zone: Not just for boys.

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Goblin182 26

That must be really hard. I don't think you should say you love him since he is in a relationship but try to keep your distance so that you don't get hurt

ndnpride88 25

Woman up and tell him how you feel. He may feel the same way but afraid to mention it. You'll never know if you don't speak up. You'll get caught in the future saying "I should've told him" while watching him marry someone else.

PinkGlitterBunny 8

You deserve it for being such a coward. It isnt that hard to say "Hey, do you want to grab coffee or dinner and a movie?" The worst he'll say is no. If he does you walk away. If yes then you have a date. Ive asked all of my crushes to go on a date. I'm a girl.

ajs1987 15

I'm a guy and I agree with your advice. One time a friend of mine came up to me and told me she had feelings for me and then she asked me out on a date. I had never thought of her romantically before, but I was so impressed by her confidence that I decided to go on that date with her. It just took that one moment to get me thinking that maybe she would be a great girl for me, and I was right. We ended up dating for a long time. OP just needs to tell him how she feels. Like I said, it only took that one little moment to get me to start thinking completely different.

Move on, stop wasting your time and heart on someone who will provably never see you that way

You deserve it Op, either tell him how you feel, and move on. Or just distance yourself from him. You are putting yourself through it.

Oh honey, I know it might be torturous, but walk away from this friendship for your own mental health. Take a few months away, date or sleep around or whatever it takes for you to get over this infatuation.

Maybe good sounding bad advice might have given you a chance to steal him away as your own...

Yes, ruin a chance for him at a relationship because of your own selfishness. Good way to tell if you truly have feelings for him or not, if you actually care you will put his feelings above your own.

Sorry OP, can't say you deserve it but you did ask for it. If you have feelings for this guy, be nicer to yourself and STOP being his "wingman", whether you tell him or not.