I know how bad it sucks to want to be with someone when you can't. But trust me, you're better off with someone who won't cheat, bail on you, or say they want to be with you only to move far away.

I will never understand why people do that to each other if you have someone that genuinely loves you why mess it up? You don't hurt the person your with to be with someone else

Why do you have kids when you aren't married? It's just stupid

You've had four kids and been with him for 7 years, but you're still not married? This dude is a player. Sorry you had to deal with that.

That's so terrible.. I'm sorry OP! But maybe spring cleaning came a little early! You don't need someone like that in your life.

I can't imagine having to raise 4 kids alone. My heart goes out to you. This will be a very difficult time. Try to rally with friends and family. You'll get through this and come out better on the other side.

Look into common law marriage laws in your state so you can sue him for child support. You're better off without him, but the kids need the money and they also need to see their mother standing up for them. Good luck.

7 years and 4 kids? If he didn't marry after 2, you should've already known. YDI

You've been engaged for seven years? He never meant to commit. You deserve it, but your kids don't. Hopefully, they learn from your mistake, and don't repeat it.

Damn I would be pissed if I were engaged for seven years to begin with