That sucks OP. With how you said it, it seems you really have patience and were obviously willing to wait until she was ready and that is admirable. Unfortunately she didn't reciprocate that level of respect you gave her. I'm sorry OP but I agree with what many people say n the comments - you deserve someone better so dump her. I've been in long term relationships as well so I know it's not gonna be easy for you to terminate a relationship where you've invested a lot of time, emotion, and commitment. One thing I've learned in life is that people who cheat on relationships don't deserve a second chance. It's her loss OP.

Something tells me she's not quite over the commitment problems... *****. Sorry, OP.

"Bitches."

Man, that sucks dude, hope you feel better soon!

when a girl give you the it's-not-you-it's-me speech, it's you.

Ouch, sorry about that OP but now you know what the relationship really meant to your ex.

Sorry dude, it doesn't sound like commitment issues. It was "committing to you" issues. I hate when some women use guys as a "stepping stool" while they wait for someone they're willing to commit to. Good luck with the future bro

These hoes ain't loyal

I lost 3 years of my life to a guy's intimacy and commitment problems. Don't lose any more of yours.

It sounds like she still has commitment problems.