By Anonymous - 10/10/2015 04:43 - Canada - Qualicum Beach

Today, desperate to meet a guy, I went clubbing. The only guy to show any interest opened with, "You're hot, for a black chick!" FML
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Dave_Davington 33

It's a club. They're basically a place to keep all the fuckwits away from the rest of us. That sort of thing is to be expected, really.

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fpants2010 18

People are so rude.

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smoothies14 32

I hate to say it but that's just as much of a generalization as all the people angry that the guy called black women ugly. Some people are pretty, some not as much, but it has nothing to do with race.

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Catdragon 40

clubs usually only contain fuckboys or thots. not the best place to look if you want a serious relationship. a hookup, yeah. a long term relationship, no.

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Catdragon 40

I'm not interested in black people. they're just not my type. however there are a few exceptions. yes what the guy said was insensitive, but that doesn't necessarily make him racist.

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lavapants 15

To tell you the truth I didn't like black women some years ago but after dating one and befriending others now I can see their charm and that there are indeed beautiful black women.

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Catdragon 40

I don't find myself attracted to white people either. I find myself attracted to people with caramel skin, sort of like Hispanics. I also find myself attracted to Asian people. it's nothing against black people, it's just the way I am.

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pizzaslut247 12

It's funny how people are saying the guy isn't racist. But if I see a white person at a club desperate to meet a guy, and I am the ******** who goes,"Hey, you're pretty hot for a white woman!" I'd totally be dissed. Why you ask? because saying the same shit to some black person would be 'sexual preference' but saying it to a white person would be unacceptable and racist. The world we live in today.

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praesidiem 16

Not true even a little bit. In fact, I have been told "You're pretty hot for a white guy." And guess what? I didn't think anything about it.

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praesidiem 16

I am not sexually attracted to black women. Am I racist? No. Do I have sexual preferences? Yes. This guy was a blatant asshole, but not racist. "You're hot for a blond." Wouldn't be considered nearly as offensive, even though they both pertain to sexual preferences.

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SailorKelly 7

Please don't compare something so easily and immediately changed such as hair color to someone's race. There's a huge difference. If you're told that your hair color is bad or not a preference then you can just change it to make it a preference, but you can't change your skin color. And when you grow up hearing things like that about your skin it's going to deeply affect someone's sense of self-worth.

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praesidiem 16

And suddenly its justified to make me question my self-worth simply based on my own sexual preference? How about this then, "You're pretty hot for having a mole on your face.", I don't assume the person is "racist" for not liking moles on a face. "You're pretty hot for a straight guy.", I don't assume the person hates/think less of a straight guy. You know why? Because some people like dudes. Some people like white women. Some people like dogs. And none of these people should be crucified for their sexual preferences.

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wildnargles 15

If someone is sexually attracted to a dog I sure as hell aren't going to be okay with that

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9a_1z 12

Why would you feel the need to point out the mole on their face or the fact they have blond hair though? If you're interested you're interested, no need to tell them what makes you second-guess it. Isn't it a way of making them feel bad about themselves based on something they can't change? If you're using someone's race to make them feel they have to work harder for your attention, maybe you should re-examine whether it's simply 'sexual preferences'.

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praesidiem 16

# 84, I suppose you're a homophobe too then? Because love is love after all.

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praesidiem 16

#102, exactly. He didn't need to point it out, but he did. Hence the fact that he's a blatant asshole. From just what he said though, it's not fair to make the assumption that he's racist. My best friend from elementary school is a black female, and I love her to death. I'm just not sexually attracted to her lmao. I don't need to reevaluate my sexual attractions.

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9a_1z 12

He was an asshole, and racist, because he was using her race to make her feel like she needed to make up for something. Anyway, even if you don't want to shag her, is your black friend attractive? This guy wasn't saying 'I personally find other skin colours more sexually appealing', he basically said 'your skin colour makes you less hot'.

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praesidiem 16

I don't find her, or black women attractive. What type up ****** up society deems attractiveness important? My best friend is the coolest person I've ever met, she outclasses any white person (oh no, I'm double racist) but I am not attracted to her. Do I deserve to burn in social purgatory because my dick won't get hard thinking about black women?!??!

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Drnknmonkey08 12

don't meet guys at the clubs! majority of the time you will find cheaters, alcoholics, and people who have no ambition

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