Thanks for that definition of 'no' captain obvious

He just wants to further their relationship. I guess he just likes her more than she likes him. OP really shouldn't be leading him along like this. If she doesn't want to have a full relationship with him then she should be upfront about that.

op, like many others, believes that sex isn't necessary in a relationship. there are plenty of people who wait until marriage (or want to until they're forced into it be some form of coercion, physical or otherwise). that doesn't mean she's stringing him along. plus, even if that wasn't enough (which it is.. no means no, no matter what) she told him from the very start what her beliefs were. just because he decided not to believe her, that's her fault? no. just no.

A "full relationship" doesn't require sex. And it doesn't indicate if you care more or less if you don't want to have sex or want to wait. There's asexual people that can love people but not want sexual activity, and by that meaning those who has one night stands or such must have deep feelings for a lot of people. He doesn't give a shit about her if he can't handle her saying no, he just wants sex.

#100 Don't be a troll. We both know that everything you said was just a bunch of bullshit only intended to get rise out of people.

Or you could do whatever you're comfortable with doing, religious reasons or not. If you don't want to do something that important to you, nobody should make you

Wtf..?

I don't agree that God is disappointed and we can never do good in God's eyes. Yes we will all do wrong, but God forgives us and we can also do right. At least that is what I think. I often do things wrong and think 'I might as well go the whole hog anyway' but I think that is because of guilt and it puts a barrier between us and God. God is always ready to forgive and help us. I am not necessarily saying I think sex before marriage is wrong as I think that is a personal thing.

Religion completely aside, if she does decide to start sexually experimenting the person to do it with is most definitely not the guy who obviously places all her value in her sexuality. He obviously doesn't care about her or her values. The word no doesn't mean a damn thing to him, so if she's going to have sex he is most definitely the wrong person to do it with.

This is the absolute worst advice I've ever read.

**** religion. **** God. It's not real and it harms others.

If you ignore the religious context, she obviously doesn't want to have sex with him. No one should be pressured into having sex. Also it doesn't sound like he cares about her. It sounds more like he cares more about having sex than about her.

Are you kidding me?? She WILL regret it if she is pushed or forced to! Someone should never have sex or any sexual interaction unless both parties want to! This is pretty damn worrying considering he's getting upset over her just saying no and probably trying to convince her to do it. Don't have sex because it's what everyone's doing, because your partner wants to, because they're upset if you don't, just don't have sex until YOU want to. You are no less a person for when that is, and it won't be enjoyable if you don't actually want to.