By Bethany - 20/05/2016 19:31 - Germany
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Go find a guy that respects not only your beliefs but women in general, which this one clearly doesn't.
Dump his ass
He needs Jesus.
Get out you can do better O.P
Please remember that if you say no and he bugs you until you give in and say "fine, as long as you shut up" it is not consent. Don't lose yourself and your values, OP. Stick to your guns!
erm excuse me i'm not trying to protect her asshat of a bf but when you say "fine" it is consent, nevermind the reasons. saying fine and afterwards deciding it wasnt consensual because you were pressured or because you are dissatisfied with the results is exactly what leads to false rape allegations and that is another evil by itself entirely.
First off: DTMFA! Anything is better than that! Second... I'm going to get really hammered for this.. but there is a really regrettable trend in the U.S. of religious girls going totally wild. Poor education leads to girls thinking there is only one kind of "virginity" and they resort to oral and anal (known as "saddlebacking") to keep their boyfriends satisfied while staying "pure" for marriage. Also, they did an entire show on preacher's daughters going out of control. It's not an unheard of situation for really repressed girls to have a wild streak. Their parents are at home pretending they don't see it (their kid is a good kid!) or trying to pray it away. I knew a few religious girls in high school who had really bad reputations. For the record, I'm an atheist. I don't think sex is inherently immoral. It's a personal choice for consenting adults. In this case, her choice is not being respected.
Ugh...what a self-centered pig. I hope you decide to get him out of your life, and fast.
I'd say it's time to dump that douche.
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Show it anywayThat's probably what he said. It doesn't sound like she's saying that about anyone who has sex before marriage. And this really isn't the time to be focusing on one thing she may be saying. He's the one that is seriously in the wrong. And calling someone that does not make you any better. Really.
The quoted indicate to me that the boyfriend said the slutty part. And you really don't have the moral high ground complaining about a girl using a gendered slur and then immediately using a different gendered slur.
Where exactly did they say "every" one is? Because I'm not seeing that at all. Maybe try actually reading things before you comment, and not making generalized assumptions. You'll look much less stupid that way.
Time to make that boyfriend into an EX-boyfriend. What a disrespectful bastard
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If he can't respect a single wish he's not worth keeping around
I wonder if he puts that on his rèsumè...