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By Srain - 07/01/2010 06:36 - Australia

Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 489
You deserved it 3 860

Same thing different taste

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To lose 16 kilo's in 1 month, you need to burn 4500 kilocalories more than you eat each day. The only ways to do that are if you - run for two hours a day and eat absolutely nothing (wich is not very healthy) or - have cancer (with is of course even less healthy) Also, your skin can't adapt that fast, so there are probably hanging loose folds of skin from OP's entire body now.

16 kilos in one month. That can't be good.

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skyeyez9 24

if you like the new look, stay that way! You are lighter and at a healthier weight. He is probably jealous other guys may notice you now.

Yeah unless she was already healthy... The smaller you are doesn't mean the healthier you are....

Unfortunately, if she lost that much weight in such a short time she's just going to put it back on again...

If this is indeed true (which I doubt it is), YDI for trying to kill yourself for him. Even if you're eating 2000 Calories a day, you'd have to burn 6000. There's no way you could maintain that kind of intensity for a month unless you're on "the Biggest Loser ranch."

What if she was a mountain of fat? Then 35 pounds wouldn't be that much, no?

It wouldn't be that much no... but in a month that's more than a pound a day... Unless she's lucky that gives a good chance of being malnourished and possibly looking sickly....

You asked him what he thought, and he answered honestly.

DBkkk 0

That makes no sense. Who likes fat girls?

Am4eyo 0
Am4eyo 0

ydi for being ugly even when skinny

YDI for giving into your boyfriend's demands of losing weight... changing your weight is something you should only do for yourself, if at all.

She said he "encouraged" her to lose weight. That doesn't mean he told her to. When I get upset with my weight and start complaining about it, my boyfriend encourages me to do something about it. Not because he cares what I weigh, but because he wants me to be happy with myself. He could have easily been encouraging her in the same way, but maybe she took it overboard and he doesn't really like the outcome. Or maybe he said something like, "I liked your body before," as a way of saying he liked her either way, and she took it the WRONG way. There are many ways to interpret this without immediately jumping on the, "OMG UR BF IS A JERK!" bandwagon.

Yeah no shit. Or maybe she just went overboard... 16 kilos is a lot, maybe she's too skinny now. There is such a thing, you know. A lot of girls don't seem to understand that...

#54: Yeah, there's really no way to do that healthily. It'd still hurt her, no matter what her starting weight was.