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Do you wana build a snowman
I use to be crazy shy. I wouldn't even speak in class. Teacher thought I was a mute. Then I came to the realization, people will judge you regardless. So I'd rather be judged for who I am and dislikes. Than judged for what I'm not and disliked.
OP there is nothing "wrong" with you. Check your mbti type online. Us introverts work better with fewer friends. I work well with 2, find 3 draining, and have 1. We meet, eat, play uno or watch TV. You are not a failure if you don't go clubbing. Be you. Was 30 when I got this. It'll happen. X
Shy? You probably have anxiety issues like I do ):
Shy doesn't automatically equal anxiety. But yes, that could be the problem.
I was the same as you. I couldnt even speak to family without getting extremely self conscious and start stuttering and blushing. I got through it by starting a sport. Maybe its time to start a hobby where you can interact with others.
You ain't alone bro.
Try Meetup.com. There are groups for everyone with a wide range of interests. I'm shy as well, but have made a few friends that way.
Don't worry OP, this happened to me too. You should just invite people to do things with you, maybe someone from work? Just smile a lot and be yourself. In the few years between 25 & 28 I've managed to come out of my shell and making friends is actually pretty easy. Who knew! All the best with your play date :)
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Some of the best relationships start as friendships in the sandbox throwing sand in each other's faces and screaming "No, YOU are a poopyhead!" Don't forget to put on a clean diaper first, and bring an extra juice box for her. Chicks dig that. Good luck.
people are always friends with someone that has cool toys...