time to drop that pussy and go fishin. there's more where they came from

sounds just like my ex. and speaking from experience i tell you 3 things... 1. she truly meant it 2. its not a reflection on you, its just the way she is 3. get out, sooner the better, the power imbalance is only gonna get worse btw everyone... is it just me is every relationship under the control of the one who cares less....

A lot of people are saying it won't change. I'm in a relationship of 2 years and up until about 6 months ago, I put all of the effort into the relationship, I treated my boyfriend like a king and to him I was just kind of "there", but now, he tries even harder than I do! He tells me he loves me all the time, when before, he never told me. The other day I even woke up to a romantic little scavenger hunt. It can change, it just depends on how much your heart can take before it breaks. I just don't think it's right for people to know 1 thing about your whole relationship and say, "leave her". I say hold on if you can, if it means that much to you. :) WHAT A LONG COMMENT, SORRY!

That single phrase demonstrates an amazing aptitude for cruelty. People don't value each-other in relationships. It's kind of disgusting really. I wish you the best of luck, but you are better off without her. People are typically not worth the time.

I've been on both ends. It's always better to be the beloved then it is to be the lover...but unless you're a bitch being the beloved one can kind of suck as well... It sounds like this girl is kind of taking advantage of you, and your strong feelings for her likely make her feel good. anyhow, you definitely don't deserve it, unless you decide to accept it now. It's always hard to leave someone when you're the one who loves them more. BTW best XKCD ever: "I love you." "I love you more." "....Probably."

one of my girlfriends said the same damned thing.

ouch, probably a bad sign when they admit that.

I feel your pain man

Dude, same boat - just sufferer ends of the world :)

Been there, experienced that. Talk to her about it more.