WTF? What the hell did she tell your friends?! That's way ****** up man, sorry.

Very sad. Of course her "friends" sided with her. They want to get laid too. They think they have a chance. She learned a long time ago that this is what "flirting" and being a ***** buys her. Guess what; in 5 years, after she has dated, and cheated on all of them, she'll be on to a different group of "friends"; I guarantee it. I know the type. Sorry she stuck you with a kid. She did that on purpose, you KNOW it. You are nothing but money and sperm to her. No matter what she says. She may have a conscience, but she's WAY too far gone to ever listen to it. No real difference between that and a psychopath - other than the crying-act is much more convincing. When someone cheats once, and confesses, is sorry, makes it up to their partner, and never does it again, that's okay. Hurts, but you get over it. But when someone cheats over and over like this - these people don't change. Ever. They are messed-up in the head. She manipulates your emotions and your reality by controlling the truth she deems you're "allowed" to know. Unfortunately - your kid will also be seriously messed up, being raised by her. None of this is your fault. She is a predator, you were her prey. Take your time, to get through this. Make it your personal rule, to NEVER date a cheater, or someone who cheated in the past, or someone who blames their mistakes on others. You are FAR better off being alone, than being with a manipulative abusive *****, or people who condone or approve her behavior. For the record, I have nothing against multiple partner sex, if that's what you're into, and if people are open and honest about what they do. I'm just saying, cheaters are liars. Liars are cowards. This stuff can get you killed.

Your display name had better be a reference to 30 Rock.

whatever happen to the statement bros before hoes? unless, they are trying to score with her. No guy should ever throw a pity party for a girl, just so unmanly.

no she cheated on you with FOUR guys. she forgot to tell you about me :D

On the upside, they weren't real friends anyway? FYL

You let her cheat twice before realizing it? FYL, but YDI.

That sucks. You did the right thing, though, and don't juts assume you "have no friends" just yet. If they were both your friends, just because they tried to cheer her up, won't necessarily mean they aren't still going to be friends with you. It's just because you're the one that broke up, sure it's because of what she did, but friends don't necessarily know the whole story.

ydi for sticking around one time and you are out

YDI for not dumping her after she cheated on u the first time.