Love: Today, I changed all my plans, after months of him begging me...

By stupidgirl - 30/09/2010 05:31 - United States

Today, I changed all my plans, after months of him begging me to, so I could go to the same university as my long-term boyfriend. After I sent in my deposit, he told me we couldn't live together in college because I was "invading his space." FML

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By LisaM - 27/02/2023 04:00

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By gullible - 21/02/2010 02:38 - United States

Today, I travelled across an ocean to visit the guy I'm dating. He lied to me about his apartment; he lives in a dorm with a twin-sized bed and a bathroom he shares with 8 guys. Just now, after taking 3 trains from the airport to his "apt", he asked me to edit his essay while he goes to class. FML

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Mirorbo 26

Thursday 30 September 2010 12:10

Never change your plans for the sake of a single boy in your youth. In this era, it's just not worth it, darling...and now you see why....

redbluegreen 40

Thursday 30 September 2010 12:52

If he was so desperate to be together, why didn't he go to the college of your choice? Dump him, because let's face it, he's probably a clingy loser anyway. Pull your pants up and do what you want to do; independence is always attractive. More often than not, your education will last longer than your relationships, especially if it's a high school relationship, so always put school first.

Comments

GregoryStalver_fml 6

Thursday 30 September 2010 22:43

Ok, I know this is going to sound very rude, but frankly, this is how I understood it : he just wanted someone convenient to ****. There, I've said it. Now dump his selfish ass.

MindWonderer 0

Friday 1 October 2010 2:39

uhh yea i agree with the very first person...that was dumb

thecovert 7

Friday 1 October 2010 2:41

YDI. Don't do such a stupid thing again.

buddyweiser 0

Friday 1 October 2010 6:57

guess smith from the matrix was right....

rommie_fml 0

Friday 1 October 2010 14:57

awesome. find a way to poison him. :) it's the only civil way to put dogs down.

Lisa89 3

Friday 1 October 2010 19:37

If you were going to make such a decision you really should have discussed that kind of thing with your boyfriend before you commited... So i'm going to have to say YDI. I'm all for doing things for the sake of love (and OP could have wanted to go to that university anyway, big no no if you really didn't want to go). I've known of people who go to the same uni as each other, but it was a sitution of them wanting to go anyway. But seriously, you really have talked about it and sorted it out before jumping the gun. Discuss the seriousness of your relationship? Whether you would be living together during that time? Your future plans together??? Or better yet, just go to the university you wanted to go to..

5t3ff1k4h 44

Saturday 2 October 2010 2:54

I agree with your post, but there was nothing said that hinted they hadn't talked about this first, IMO. He begged her, so she knew her choices, and (at least if I was the one in this situation) they probably talked it out... or partially, so it seems, before she finalized her decision. It's possible he just backed out at the last minute because he realized it wasn't what he wanted or he wasn't ready for it.

VenomByte 1

Friday 1 October 2010 21:24

LOL - Mass-hole!!!

LukeNukem_fml 3

Friday 1 October 2010 22:10

sorry, but this made me laugh my ass off. I find it hilarious when someone uses "invading personal space" whether it's serious or a joke. pretty much what everyone else said, dump dat mofo's ayyyyuuus.