By brokenbabe - 22/06/2011 02:38 - United States

Today, I decided I was done waiting for my boyfriend to ask me to marry him, so we were cuddling in his bed and I asked him. He asked for a rain check. FML
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brokenbabe 5

I am the OP. my boyfriend and i havent had sex. Thats the first thing. We've been together 3 years. He has promised we are getting married since fall 2010. He said like this summer. I did not leave him. I am just mad at him

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Top comments

LolaD18 1

Next time he asks for sex ask for a raincheck, simple as that.

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Livinia 11

Not as bad as the FML a while ago about the guy who proposed at Chuck-E-Cheese.

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Comments

fancymega 7

wats a rain check?

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TraceCase_ 19

*sigh Just go away please.

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alimahdi 4

a woman told me if your man after 6-12months still doesnt know if he wants to be with you for the rest of his life, its time to get a new man!

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adaliapeace 3

Uh, really? Sorry, but I don't think most relationships develop quickly enough for you to know who you want to marry after 6-12 months. It's perfectly possible that her boyfriend isn't ready to make that kind of commitment. My husband and I got married almost two years in, after we'd had the chance to really get to know each other's habits and quirks. On the other side, my ex and I got engaged six months in, while we were still learning each other, and we ended up fighting all the time about stupid things.

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zenti 2

6-12 months is not a long enough indicator of whether or not you want to stay with the other person for the rest of your life, since you're still in the lust phase.

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pink_raindrops 26

That is some of the worst advice I have heard. I know some people get engaged, or fall in love very early in the relationship, and sometimes it lasts, but people who get married that soon don't typically stay together long. You may think you're in love, but I think true, lasting love takes alot longer to develope.

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jbeach91 3

my husband asked me to marry him when we had known eachother two weeks. we are very happy. screw your six months not being enough. what do YOU know?

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alexFYL 11

Well, at least he didn't say no. Of course, if you've been together 8 years and he still says that... hmmmm time to rethink things. I think around 3-4 years is a good time frame. Any sooner than that, and your relationship is still young.

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MagicMarker 0

He's just using you for sex, OP. You should move on and find a guy who actually thinks highly enough of you to want to spend the rest of his life with you. You're wasting your time with this loser.

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nkt_19 0

a guy doesn't usually want to marry you if he didn't ask you first. He probably wasn't ready. YDI.

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allthatremains25 0

why is everyone hating on OP? whatever floats your boat, it just shows that OP has more balls then her boyfriend.

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frustrated20 8

why would you want to get married anyway...

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