By TheGoodTwin - 14/07/2011 15:53 - United States

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Today, I discovered that my boyfriend has been having an intimate text exchange with a woman. She's the grieving widow of his friend who died three weeks ago. FML
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You deserved it 2 813

Same thing different taste

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There is something terribly wrong with your boyfriend. 1) An 'intimate text exchange' (sexting, right?) with 2) the widow of 3) his friend? Three reasons that are imo good enough to dump him - at least, if he doesn't have a good explanation/regrets it deeply. I would definitely reconsider this relationship. Sexting to another woman is a first step to cheating. Sexting to a grieving widow is an whole new level of being an arsehole.

Thats how it all starts then you find him cheating on you.

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utvols11 0
krissydreams 0

that's horrible :( I'm sorry

what a ******* asshole. to you and his friend. punch him in the ******* nuts.

it depends what kind of intimate texting it is, sexting or just flirtatious texts, but either way he could be trying to help his friends partner feel better which would mean his heart is in the right place or hes a complete douche for 1) cheating on the OP 2) taking such a tragedy as an oppurtunity to become intimate with his friends partner (whether texting or otherwise) AND 3) being intimate with a recent widow which is grieving and could easily take any oppurtunity to feel better .

28 - it's funny, as I was scrolling through the comments I thought that as I scrolled down a little and saw your comment!

methatguy94 1

It depends what you mean by intimate. If it was sexual, you need to have a talk. But I've had conversations I would consider intimate and private that were perfectly innocent. If she needs someone to confide in and your boyfriend is it, that is none of your business. Again I say if it is sexual or borders on cheating, then you definitely need to talk