By Foxy0706 - 10/11/2015 19:27 - United States - Baton Rouge

Today, I finally told my boyfriend I have a medical condition that makes me grow an unusual amount of hair on my face, so I shave every day. He said he was leaving me because he refuses to be with a "bearded lady". FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 164
You deserved it 2 416

Same thing different taste

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mermaidkeels 26

He is just intimidated at the fact that you are more of a man than he is.

You're better off without him OP! Nobody should be judged for something they can't control, I'm sure you're still beautiful inside and out!

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He's the one with a loss OP! You were honest and trusting and. He threw it away. You deserve better!

You're better off without that person. Someone that sees only your outside appearance isn't worth the heartache. Gl op!

They aren't worth the heartache indeed. They only deserve a heartattack

Refuses to be with a bearded lady but is fine with leaving somebody because of a medical condition. Maybe he just had his priorities on shuffle.

Matayaz 16

That's horrible! You're so much better off without him!!

makes him insecure about looking like he hasn't go e through puberty

Hey, that's his loss if he couldn't tell in the first place. Plenty of guys out there who won't give two figs.

I hate to say it, but he has a right to break up with you. If he's not attracted to you for whatever the reason is, he can and probably should break up with you. Sorry though...

he didnt have to be such an asshole about it and make her feel self conscious though

Sure he can break up with her, people stop feeling attracted, fall out of love, etc. - he didn't have to be such a massive asshole about it though, did he? Don't bother playing Devil's advocate, there is literally no way that what the boyfriend said is OK.

Also, he was with her before and she's been shaving all this time...so surely it's not a problem unless she stops shaving? She doesn't look any different to how she did before.

If you shave it off...who cares? He's an idiot.

Malaki691 15

Why would you tell him that?? What they don't know won't hurt them...what's wrong with you???

No mate, what's wrong with you? Perhaps you don't know this but relationships are built on honesty and trust.

Well I mean if they ended up moving in together and getting married isn't that a bit wrong? There's nothing for them to be ashamed of so she shouldn't have to keep it secret

MzZombicidal 36

I'd say the medical condition that causes the hair to grow along with a deep insecurity based on European beauty standards it's what's wrong with OP. Also judgemental assholes who make a big ******* deal over things out of someone else's control is a big problem too. Take your pick.

The point here is that it SHOULDN'T BE A BIG DEAL. She had every right not to tell him and his reaction when she plucked up the courage to was disgusting and completely unwarranted. There is nothing wrong with the OP. The boyfriend is a dick, end of.

I suffer from PCOS so I know exactly how you feel OP, luckily my bf is supportive about my condition

Me too! It's a horrible condition but we just have to get on with it and except who we are ?