It's in no way a YDI and a woman has every right to bitch out her man for watching ****. It's disrespectful to your partner. If both partners want to watch it, ok whatever (although I don't agree with that either), but if both don't agree on it, no one should be watching it.

Bullshit. How many people do you actually know, personally, face-to-face that are in the **** industry? I know a few, and none of them were exploited or drug addicts. I'm not saying it doesn't happen ever, but I think it's not as common as people like to think.

@zebidee, yeah i do actually personally know several people who have been involved with the **** industry, and I interviewed many more (both former and current **** actors) for my dissertation, which was about the **** industry and how it effects those involved psychologically, so I do actually know quite a lot about the subject. I would say that drug abuse and a history of sexual abuse in **** actors is more common than people like to think as people don't want to feel guilty about watching ****. Also why would anybody like to think that it happened more than it did? that would be pretty sick! I am not saying that people who watch **** are bad people, only that the industry is poisonous to many involved, and having finding out what I now know about it I could never watch it myself.

there being paid, so I don't care. same issues don't stop me from watching football, most of those guys are going to need knee replacements and such.

what do you mean the "same issues in football"? The issues being discussed were the fact that a large number of women in pornographic films have a history of sexual abuse in childhood and problems with drugs/alcohol addiction- would you like to explain to me how these are the same issues that footballers face? Also the fact that somebody is paid does not mean they are not being exploited- take illegal immigrants who end up in below minimum wage jobs with absolutely no workers rights- they are still being exploited regardless of the fact that they choose to do the work and get paid for it.

I'm going to go out on the limb here and tell you that the majority of men look at ****. I can speak from experience and from friends. Yea it can be a bad thing if it's draining from a relationship, however, it can also be a marital aid or relationship aid. You should discuss it with your partner to prevent any jealousy issues. **** isn't the problem, it's lack of communication and/or if it's replacing your partner.

I'm also going to have to throw the age card. I'm sure that as a mature 18 year old woman of the world that you are, you have lots of male friends. But I assure you, men lie to women. They lie a lot about sex to women too. Which is wrong, and they should be truthful. And I'm not an expert, but I'm sure in my 32 years as a male I probably have a more accurate perspective than you as an 18 year ok female on the male sexual desires.

69, thank you! Finally someone to shed some light on those who feel as if they know everything... so annoying.

citrusgirl, torrent pirates 2. it might loosen you up.

Fail. Just...fail.

dump as in 2girls1cup? or am I way off??

Eh, why would anyone want to watch **** when they can have sex with their partner? :) Real deal is better...

Ehh why do women like more floor play than men? The real deal is better too. Different sexes like different things. It's normal.

Obviously if you can't grasp the idea of sexual fantasies that may be unattainable, you're either young or very ignorant/inexperienced.

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