By impure - 29/09/2014 16:48 - United States

Spicy
Today, I found out I have an STD, courtesy of my girlfriend. Funnily enough, she was clean when we first started dating. FML
I agree, your life sucks 48 225
You deserved it 4 529

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Ouch.. Sorry Op! Time to get a new girl?

Why shouldn't you eat your girlfriend's peas? Because they are herpes

Comments

erenjaeger 16

I don't get why people are jumping to the cheating conclusion. I mean yes, it's a possibility, but it could also be that she just lied. If she lied, and it was a life-threatening one, though, you can take her to court for it.

I agree, unless you went on some strange second date where you both got tested, if she didn't show you the papers to say she's clean then you can't really rely on her statement. That said, it doesn't mean she intentionally lied, she could have honestly just not known. Especially if it's something like chlamydia, which often doesn't show symptoms in women.

Maybe her STD was in a non active state. Or maybe she did not get tested for all stds. Or maybe she found out that she got an std from an ex after dating you for a while.

And now she's a dirty little ***** unless you've been dipping your winky in someone else's sinky.

Props to you for actually taking tests. Way to many people still don't do that.

I really hope you're joking. Condoms don't protect you against STD's, and they don't always work doing their main purpose either.

Queen_of_Night 20

You are a moron 78... Their original purpose was the same purpose is today; to prevent pregnancy and STD's. The problem is human error. Condoms DO protect you from STD's when used perfectly. But most people don't use them correctly.

82 - what about when there is a herpes outbreak on a spot that cant get covered by a condom? ...so not exactly corect

Lil_Red777 21

#85 let me answer that for you, if someone is clearly having a herpes outbreak you aren't going to have sex with them!

96 - i was talking strictly using condoms, of course you wouldnt/shouldnt still have sex with them but that wasnt the thing in question! (unless you fit "not having sex" into the "using a condom properly" category then whatever)

To those saying cheating, nothing says how long they have been together, could of happened before. Or she could of just lied or had not been checked and assumed as nothing was showing symptoms. Does bring up some trust issues either way though. Cheating/lying/assuming is never good.

How could you know with any certainty if either of you were clean when you met? I seriously doubt you ran blood tests.

but people do it, so how can you doubt it?

Same thing happened to me. My ex had the curtesy to blame me