By alaskaintexas - 19/07/2012 07:29 - United States - Bulverde
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Her maid of honor is already married, and she's not getting married for the second time. I just married her brother. And btw, I'm planning her wedding with her mother, not her.
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What, a friend/family member being asked to serve punch at a wedding? Is that a regional custom or something? 1) who even has punch at a wedding 2) wouldn't that be something the caterer or the venue staff would be responsible for? OP, I'd "accidentally" serve punch to the front of someone's dress, get fired from servitude, and enjoy the reception. Guests don't work at someone's wedding. I think it's rude to even ask.
It might be regional or cultural. I come from a mennonite family and our weddings are traditionally catered by family, so asking a family member to mind the punch seems normal to me. I did it at my brothers wedding and its basically fill cups for the kids and chat with the family when they come to fill their own.
So? She wants you to be involved in her wedding, be happy. Friendship is not always equal in both directions.
Oh diddums, her feeling are hurt because she didn't do anything to 'deserve' it? What does that even mean? She just assumed that the MOH title was her and now her poor feelings are wounded that it has been passed onto someone else? It's hardly an honour if it's an entitlement.
Wouldn't your sister in law already be married? To your brother?
There can be more than one type of sister in law. The two i have are not married...why? Because they are my husband's little sisters.
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You should serve punch all right....a punch right in the face...but no, that sucks :(
Never heard of a "maid of punch"