You had a crush on someone for two years and neglected to tell that person. Relationships don't just combust out of thin air, the least you need to do is talk to the other person. Maybe your friend was too afraid to tell you and wanted him to tell you and then "afterwards" him and your friend could "hook up" Next time you have a crush, try to atleast talk to the person once every 2 years.

What a friend, she made you throw away two years of your life! And they dated in secret just so you shouldnt find out? Thats just madness and tells how cowards they are... Tell her to **** off...

You don't own the guy only because you have a crush on him

I'm in a similar situation. Not exactly the same, but similar. I don't have a **** blocking friend in mine. Be mature about it and definitely realize this chick is not and was not your friend. Dwelling on it will only make you more bitter.

Wait a second..you've had a "crush" for two years..is your friend even old enough to get married? because you sound like a lovestruck teen. I'm calling Fake on this one. you would have heard from somebody else that they were seeing each other, they would have been seen by someone at some point, and did you never wonder where she was? complete BS.

Hmm, this is an interesting situation. Here is my opinion on this. I think your friend is 1) either a complete bitch 2) they weren't telling you because you are crazy. Either way it doesn't sound like you two are healthy together. It doesn't seem like you are violent, but if you have a terrible temper, are prone to stalking, or are prone to pretend suicide to get your way, then perhaps that is why they didn't tell you. Also because you didn't say anything or do anything, it seems, besides hinting, then you probably deserved this, just a little. Had you pursued him and had him turn you down by him telling you "Your friend so and so and I are dating" then you probably didn't know because you didn't think to ask.

nice 29. now everyone look at my picture im in a firetruck yay!!! :D

ydi for being her friend.

What #17 said. YDI, for being a wuss after two years. I don't think your friend was a complete bitch. You can't help who you fall for right? What I didn't like about your friend was that she should have told you sooner. However, her still trying to persuade you and encourage you was like what #17 said, maybe she wanted you to step up so that she can back down. But you never took the initiative to. In the end, it is still your fault. 2 years is a freaking long time.

what a total bitch your "friend" is. if they were that good at keeping secrets from other people, they'[ll be good at keeping secrets from each other... doomed marriage if you ask me. hope you're okay OP : )