By shandrith - 03/07/2009 14:16 - United States

Today, I found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, with the same guy I was cheating on him with. FML
I agree, your life sucks 229
You deserved it 877

shandrith tells us more.

Hi, I'm the one that posted this FML. I know that cheating wasn't a good thing to do, but that wasn't the point of the FML. Had I simply found out that he was cheating with someone else, of either gender as I knew that he was bi when we entered the relationship, I would have said nothing. The reason I posted it, and the reason I do consider it to be an FML is because of the absolute ridiculousness of the fact that we were cheating with the SAME PERSON!!! The three of us have spoken and decided that none of us are going to continue seeing each other. The BF and I were obviously both deeply unhappy, and the third part took advantage of both of us. Ex and I will probably remain friends, and chalk this up to one of those errors in life that are hilarious five years later, but hurt like hell when they happen. #3 can go to hell for all I care

Comments

a⋅dul⋅ter⋅y –noun, plural -ter⋅ies. voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse. ---- Having sex before you're married is just pre-marital sex.

graciedacie 0

Although the legal definition of "adultery" differs in nearly every legal system, the common theme is sexual relations outside of marriage, in one form or another. Now, whether a person cares/thinks it is wrong or not is up to them.... Just sayin'.

While I have no sympathy for those who lie about sex (I'm a polyamorist so I have no issue with multiple partners, but you're a freaking tard for lying about it). IMO, you might as well consider this an opportunity. Clearly they're both bi, make it a triple instead of a couple.

well. half of me wants to say YDI cos you cheated and that's wrong and you deserve to be cheated on. but half of me wants to say FYL for a) dating a guy on the down-low and b) the sheer irony of it. i agree that the possibility of a 3-way is totally there, though. the blame is off both of you to an extent, because both of you were cheating! and really, so was the other guy! geez. love-triangle much?

smartieee 0

thats a hollyoaks storyline..

YDI for not knowing your boyfriend is bi

baby_gurl2405 0

haha well this could go well..... u like the guy he likes the guy....... u like ur bf ur bf likes u......... so y not a 3-some? u'd get the better deal out of it anyways ;P