OP has to choose between being unemployed and broke or making money and being harassed... Choose wisely

Definitely don't have to make that choice. She can make money and not be harassed. If it continues to happen file a complaint with HR.

Unless OP works at a small business. If you work in a small restaurant or a family owned business you might not have that option.

Yes, you do. Harassment is harassment. If HR doesn't do anything, the law will.

You have to PROVE that he is sending the messages and hiring a lawyer costs thousands or dollars. You can't just go file a police report and hope they will do something because they won't.

Is it just me or does anyone else notice that the majority of people on FML seems to offer the easiest way out of the situation?

24 - Seeing as he's sending electronic messages, there will be an electronic footprint left behind. The proof is rather easy. As for lawyers, they're not necessary. Why does everyone seem to think you always need a lawyer?

35 is right. If she were to file criminal harassment charges, the city or state would provide a prosecution lawyer.

I would mention in passing that youre gay. No more creeper, keep the job.

Unless he's a really homophobic creeper...

It's simple. Block him on Facebook and casually mention that you've deactivated your account in conversation with him so he's not offended. He never has to find out you blocked him. It's really just common sense.

#27 it's just you

I hope OP wasn't completely rude to the boss cause he will be mean to OP. or I hope the creepy boss doesn't start hitting on Op. I think this might be awkward for both of them.

Work almost always sucks. And 9 times out of 10 your boss is an asshole.

Just delete or block him. I'm guessing you need your job OP, so tell him you're not on the website anymore and leave it at that.

actually a lot of bosses don't suck and work doesn't always either. I'd say wait a few weeks to see if he sends them again. he might stop now you work with him, if not contact his boss!

I've never heard of that scenario before.

Yeah. Force him to eat canned ham. That'll show him!

Sometimes I cover myself in spam then put bread on top of the spam and pretend I'm a sandwich. Sometimes for a little twist I add mayo too!!

23- cool story bro.

#40: I don't know about you, but that seems kind of epic.

I may have to try that but instead I'll use Cesar salad dressing cuz being Cesar is way better then Italian!!

Sex is so powerful.

Leafs Suck!

68- gee that's original! How did you think of that one!?

*than.Remember,then and than are totally different.

I agree with you but it's probably a coincidence, I mean someone higher up than him could have hired her unaware of the connection between the two. you're probably right but I thought I'd say it anyway!

54- thank you for the lesson, I am still new to the English language. If you ever want to learn another language let me know, maybe you will see how hard it is to remember all the rules :)

No.

Wonder how that will work...