By inthedark - 09/02/2010 17:53 - Canada

Today, I found out why my five-year-old has been throwing tantrums while shopping. It turns out my ex-husband has been paying her three dollars for every public tantrum she throws. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 566
You deserved it 3 687

Same thing different taste

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WTF? hahah. that would be quite annoying, I wouldn't take her.

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I have to say that does suck, and I felt bad until I saw that you that you agreed with someone with a username: intoxicunt.. I still feel bad believe me, just not as bad lol. as immature as it may be, I say pay her for each. shoe of his she pees in as already suggested.

and brendenburn stfu about authority or whatever crap your spewing, this is no wolf pack or indian tribe, 5 year olds hardly understand anything like that I'm sure all they care about is toys and cartoons. if she was a teen maybe I could compromise.

nice, on the fathers part, obviouly the mom is the one who wanted the devorce. SHE DESERVED IT. for being unfaithful to her husband after swearing to live with him in good, and bad till the day they die.

in_the_dark 0

Actually he asked me for a divorce because he wanted to marry his co-worker that he'd been sleeping with for almost two years. He asked for it when our daughter was 18 months old and I was 6 months pregnant with our son.

That's awful OP. :( Glad you got rid of that Pig.

MangeMoi_fml 0

FIRST WORST FIANCE EVER....BRIBING A KID TO STOP TANTRUMS IS WRONG...HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO CONTROL A FIVE YEAR OLD...SECOND YOU SHOULD MAKE THE KID UNDERSTAND WHOS BOSS...OR ELSE she WILL be EXPECTING MONEY EVERY TIME YOU GO OUT...SRY OP BUT TELL FIANCE THAYS THE WRONG WAY TO BRING UP A CHILD...HE SHOILD ACT MATURE

in_the_dark 0

Whaaa??? My fiance isn't bribing my daughter when she has temper tantrums.. My ex husband is paying her to have them, well WAS paying her.

What a douche bag. I can't believe how terrible people are that they would use their kids against each other to fight their battles for them. In divorce the kid will always end up in the middle no matter what, but if you care about them more than yourself than you should do your best to show each other respect for their sake, because otherwise you are setting them up for a lot of hurt.

in_the_dark 0

Trust me, that's not even the worst thing he has done. She came home one Sunday evening and asked me what 'slup'(****) and bitch meant. When I asked her where she had heard those words, she said that her father and Tara (ex's new wife) had called me those names. I was appalled that they said that in front of my daughter, especially since I absolutely refuse to speak ill of either of them to my daughter or son. I don't even speak ill of them when my children are in bed or in another room because I don't want them overhearing it. It saddens me that he feels the need to try to turn my kids against me, but I have a feeling a lot of it is coming from his new wife, as she makes it quite obvious that she hates me.

You really need to report this to the court.

I'm sorry to hear that OP. Hope you find a way to deal with it. It sounds like a very bad situation.