By fail - 18/08/2013 04:41 - United States

Today, I found out yet another of my guy friends liked me. I posted that I just wanted a guy friend that had absolutely no romantic feelings for me. My crush volunteered. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 892
You deserved it 67 942

Same thing different taste

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Heartless to post that, those friend who have feelings for you can read it aswell. You got what you deserve.

No sympathy from me, OP. There was no reason for you to post that on Facebook, were you just trying to inflate your ego or something? Your poor friend doesn't need to see that. If you didn't want to date him, you could have just politely declined if he asked you out. You can't get mad that your crush publicly stated that he didn't fancy you, because that's exactly what you did to your friend.

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No sympathy from me, OP. There was no reason for you to post that on Facebook, were you just trying to inflate your ego or something? Your poor friend doesn't need to see that. If you didn't want to date him, you could have just politely declined if he asked you out. You can't get mad that your crush publicly stated that he didn't fancy you, because that's exactly what you did to your friend.

That sucks, but you can never control other people's feelings.

I'd vote YDI a thousand times if I could. You're lucky that your crush is willing to even be your friend after such a douche move.

I wonder if he somehow knew OP had a crush on him, and that's why he publicly volunteered--just to give her a taste of her own medicine.

CharresBarkrey 15

Ah, and it comes full circle! Nice to see the universe working that way. You're basically a hypocrite, OP.

CharresBarkrey 15

Also, I hope you feel just as bad as you made your "yet another guy friend" feel by posting that.

Wizardo 33

The Universe is just rebalancing, about time some people get to acquaint themselves with the f-f-friendzoooooone.

Attention seeking much??? Who posts something this up themselves

"Yet another"? Yeah sorry but YDI. I have no sympathy for you.

You girls need to stop playing with our emotions....

#25 "Stop playing with [your] emotions"? How are they doing that? Being friendly to someone does not mean ipso facto that you're into them, and a lot of people have a hard time understanding that you're not entitled to someone's romantic feelings just because you're friends with them. If she said "no", she's not toying with you. She still wants to be your friend, not your girlfriend. If you can't deal with that, so sorry. :|

No. Us girls need to stop posting about it on social media. Nothing wrong with not liking people. Maybe even bitching about this kind of thing in private. But physically rubbing his nose in it is just horrible.

"You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension - a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into the Friend Zone. "