Wow, sounds like everyone here's having a knee-jerk reaction to the "nerd" part, which I read as simply being the context for that bizarre (and yes, creepy as ****) message. Nowhere did OP say she's grossed out because he's a nerd. Take a look at the facts: 1. OP has never talked to him. 2. Yet he's given a large amount of thought and consideration to "mating" with her, and is now telling her (a stranger) that. That's creepy, and it can even imply that he's been stalking her. To say that OP is "shallow," "a bitch," or anything of the sort for being disturbed and not wanting to date him is INSANE. This jerk is not entitled to a date with her, and after sending a creepy message like that, he doesn't even deserve the time of day. His social ineptitude isn't something cute that needs to be ignored, it's unacceptable creepy behavior, and the onus is on him to figure out why he's driving girls away and to fix his own flaws.

**** you bitch. Don't judge someone just because there not some douch bag that somehow gets all the girls. It's what's inside that counts.

Well he has brains you have looks :D? And maybe brains too

Reject him!!!

Other than a handful of people, how is everyone not noticing this is creepy. Sounds to me that he must have rather stalkerish tendencies, if he knows enough about her to decide she's his ideal mate. (This is coming from someone who has had several stalkers.) I have no issue with nerds, (infact most of my friends are nerds) but as with any other group of people, there are always nice ones and ones that aren't so nice.

Other than a handful of people, how is everyone not noticing this is creepy. Sounds to me that he must have rather stalkerish tendencies, if he knows enough about her to decide she's his ideal mate. (This is coming from someone who has had several stalkers.) I have no issue with nerds, (infact most of my friends are nerds) but as with any other group of people, there are always nice ones and ones that aren't so nice.

And then there's that awkward moment where u actually consider it.... On a more serious note...most nerds are really nice and I'm sure if any of them ever got a gf they would treat them very well :)

Yeah, and he'll end up being a gazillionaire, so you might want to rethink your position.

Just say that, as flattering as his choice is, that you are still deliberating on your perfect mate. After all your genome is ideal, as he must have considered in his deliberation, so u want to make sure that it is mixed with a similarly perfect genome.

Your name on FML is geeklove...