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At least he gave you a dual syllable response?
Ideally, yes. But it can be hard for some people to say how they really feel in person. Which is why some people do so via text.
He obviously doesn't care about her feelings or he wouldn't have replied "ok". But they do need a face to face discussion to see what's in his mind.
I will offer some insight into a similar situation. I always tell my boyfriend that I refuse to argue or communicate serious issues via text. If he wants to write novels via text about his feelings, my response is usually "Okay." Does that mean I don't care? Of course not. Does that mean I would rather not have a thumb-war with someone back and forth and type novels? That's exactly what that means. Also #65, being uncomfortable communicating things in person is no excuse. When you're in a relationship, that's part of the responsibility of being with someone else. Proper communication. It's best done face-to-face. It's easier, faster, and you don't feel like chucking your phone at a wall if you don't like what you read. And yes, I will accept being the asshole for being the one to say it. Sorry guys.
He might not be as invested in the relationship as you
Or maybe he's an entirely reasonable person that realizes no serious discussion should ever happen over text. Please read #79 above your post. she is a reasonable person.
Face to face would be best OP..
Stop texting him, and confront him, cause you deserve better.
Does she though? She texted him instead of talking face to face. She sounds like a drama queen.
Or maybe it's a long distance relationship and she couldn't talk to him face to face?
Skype or a phone call then, if it's long distance.
"K".
maybe the problem here is that he is a dick and you are desperate
what an asshat! might be time to find someone else op!
Sorry op, that really sucks. Maybe it's time to have a face to face talk
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Maybe it's a good idea to talk face to face about how you feel
Stop texting him, and confront him, cause you deserve better.