By oops - 15/07/2012 05:34 - United States

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Today, I got into a debate with my boyfriend over whether or not oral sex was considered sex. I stood firm that it was not. Apparently, he took this as permission, as later that night I walked in on him not having sex with my sister. FML
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onlychildFTW 33

Well that doesn't change the fact he was doing something that isn't G rated with your sister. Kissing isn't sex either, but it's considered cheating. Just because it isn't sex doesn't mean it is not wrong to do.

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I_Hug_Cats 26

well it is called oral SEX for a reason...

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dude1122332 9

Geez.. That's so messed up. Sorry that your (hopefully) ex boyfriend is a total ass. You deserve better.

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jvmateo 0

There's a reason why the word sex is in oral SEX. Feel sorry for OP though.

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FMLephant 2

Is your boyfriend Bill Clinton?

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Helloilike_lacro 8

I did not have sexual relations with that woman!

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PYLrulz 17

It depends on what the definition of "it" is

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Ray_of_midnight 22

Came here for the Bill Clinton references, leaving satisfied.

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Danielt104 6

You just made my ******* day!

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MissMisc3 7

Thank you! I was waiting for someone to say it...

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darwinism 30

Sorry to say OP, but "standing firm" to your arguement, you put your foot in you mouth, or in this case you boyfriends' dick in your sisters' mouth. A guys' interpretation of this arguement is "I can put my dick in any girls mouth and my girfriend will not mind!" YDI PS. Do not make any arguements about anal.

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transcedental 18

I can't stand people like you. I can stand firm to saying that fingering, handjobs and oral sex isn't really quite sex. Hey, flirting and kissing is not sex either but it's still considered cheating. I refuse to believe that "a guy's interpretatin" is to go stick his junk in her sister. I believe that's a "jackass's interpretention". It's not a YDI no matter how you twist it.

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GVirdi 11

20 with your logic... I'm not a guy So either you are a sexist bastard or I've been living a lie for the past 16 years and you apparently know something I don't...?

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Yorih 19

37 - I am a guy and I still think his view is retarded Maybe I'm weird, but I like to stay faithful to my girlfriend

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rudegirlmania 10

I'm having a serious internal debate trying to decide whether or not to thumb you up, 32...at the start your comment is great and it ends fantastically too, but the part where you say flirting is cheating...that's so wrong, I can't bring myself to thumb you up. But...you called the guy above you a jackass so I'm not going to thumb you down. AGH commenting didn't help, I'm just gonna walk away with no thumbs pushed : ((

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Keliosan 6

20- Their argument was about wether or not it was sex not if it was cheating. Plenty of non sexual acts are considered cheating so your statement is just huge invalid bullshit. To the flirting being cheating thing that's really more based on the couple than just generally everyone. Some people are comfortable enough in their relationships to not care and some aren't or just don't think it's respectful of their partner(that would be me)

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GVirdi 11

47 I am a guy but with 20s logic I'm not I think i just need to work on my wording to get the message across

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fmessiah 19

I don't like your sister or your boyfriend.

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nela25 23

It comes down to the point where if you are in a committed relationship with someone, you shouldn't be having any sexual relations with anyone else if it bothers at least one person.

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DocBastard 38

Does telling your boyfriend that oral sex isn't sex not make you an idiot? Then you're not an idiot.

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LuckyLynx7732 5

Whats with all the ***** sisters lately? I know your supposed to teach your kids to share, but damn.

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perdix 29

And two people who don't know how to lock doors!

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ThatWizGuy 1

That's your fault, he proved you wrong but in the end he had to cheat to do it. Break up with him but learn from this.

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PerfasarusRex 3

If this is the case then he wasn't even ready to be in a relationship with anyone. Proving a point should never be more important than the relationship itself.

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melikeyturtles 3

OP totally brought it on herself. Saying oral is not really sex just left the door open for the boyfriend to "not have sex" with whomever he chose.

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DjeePee 24

Wait, are you two actually so friggin' damn stupid to think that it's OP's fault she was cheated on? She did not push his head between her legs/opened her sister's mouth to put his dick in it. People should not have to say to their partner what's considered cheating, because normally, common sense would tell them. Eurgh. The stupitidy in this FML and the overload of YDI are killing me.

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shutyourmouth12Z 7

What does YDI mean?

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