By troubled - 04/11/2009 05:10 - United States

Today, I had an appointment with a psychotherapist. I was feeling very depressed and was telling her how I felt no one cared about me. Her phone rang and she left me mid-sentence to take a call about her new BMW. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 791
You deserved it 3 757

Same thing different taste

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One of my friends has a T-Shirt proclaiming that they take the 'the' out of psychotherapist.

Totally out of line. Her phone should be off during a session. I'd let her know that you would appreciate her full attention during sessions, as you're paying a lot of money for it.

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jchansfan 0

That last sentence makes you an idiot.

If that is what happened, I would report her because that is highly unprofessional and uncalled for. I am sorry to hear that that happened to you. Depression sucks and is bad enough to go through. You don't need someone that you are paying to help you act so rudely and poorly to you.

depression sucks I've been dealing with it for 4 years. fyl

No_fyl_cuz_ydi 0

I call fake pschotherapists get paid to pretend they care. They aren't even allowed to take other calls while in a counseling session

Um, are you serious? You realize that a good deal of people with degrees in psychology are self-employed, right? Why would you assume there's a global set of rules that every psychotherapist has to follow? Even if they did, would it be so hard to believe that someone broke them? You are a moron. I hate people like you who call out fake on every FML without any real cause.

Not true. My mom's a psychologist and she's on call 24/7, so she has to answer her business phone because she might have to hospitalize a patient. She's also answered her personal phone when I've called (though I wish she wouldn't because I don't usually have anything important enough to say).

Seriously? You think therapists run around without any rules to follow? Not only are there laws that govern how therapists work, but a code of ethics that people need to follow if they want to keep their license and certification. Ever heard of the American Psychological Association? (I am sure other countries have their own versions). The first thing we learn is ethics and law. Then they teach us how to do therapy.

The only reason the therapist was listening to the OP in the first place is that she was being paid to. It's not clear if the therapist knew what the call was about when she took it. She could have been worried about another client who had a problem more serious than just feeling sorry for herself.

right... i think a block should be put against over emotional girls placing an fml on this site

hotpockets92 0

They are allowed to do that, they just usually have more class than to take an unimportant call.

Hope you listened enough to know which BMW is hers. Now you can key it. It'll make you feel MUCH better, I guarantee.

I hate when people do that. I've ended friendships over improper cell phone etiquette. People need to grow up.