That has to be somewhat devastating. i am sorry OP for the situation you are in, I do hope you both have a talk about your realistic options, adoption or keeping it. Whatever ends up happening, you have to do what's best for this child, it's not this child's fault it was brought into this world, so do what's best for it. :) you are both adults and Im sure this baby either way will go into the right hands. Congrats none the less.

To all the people saying YDI, I'm going to be the 73rd person to say no birth control method is 100÷. I repeat. NO BIRTH CONTROL METHOD IS 100÷. Except abstinence of course but since OP is married, the chances of that are slim to none. I do want children eventually - but not right now. I need to be more financially stable before that happens. I have the Nexplanon implant (no periods ever) and my sexual partner always wears a condom. I still ended up pregnant. Since I don't get periods, I didn't know until I was around 17 weeks pregnant that birth control had failed (and even then my only symptom was a slightly bigger tummy) I had an abortion because that was an option at the time. I am all too familiar with OP's situation. It is most probably not her fault (although if her or her partner didn't double up then they deserve it). Oh and by the way? Here in the UK, doctors won't sterilise women of 'child rearing age' unless they have to for medical reasons or they already have 'enough children'. Whatever the hell that means.

For people asking how could she not know she was pregnant, some women have irregular periods so it's not unusual to go for 6 months without a period. Some types of birth control will cause irregular periods or stop them all together and their fertility could return unexpectedly. Regarding other symptoms, if someone is not expecting to be pregnant (using an IUD for birth control for example), they can pass off pregnancy symptoms as something else. And some lucky women have little or no symptoms. As for size, if a person is on the larger size, it can be easy to hide the first 20 weeks, but super fit people can also hide a pregnancy as well. Look up Sarah Stage. She hardly looked pregnant at 8½ months, and gave birth to a healthy 3.8kg baby.

may be messed up but you can always put the child up for adoption

Maybe you should have had your tubes tied if you hate children. Ydi

People say to use protection, but I know several people who got pregnant on the shot. Then they don't know they are pregnant because the shot stops periods.

Then why the hell were you having unprotected sex!? You and your husband 100% deserve this.

I'm not going to say y'all deserve it or agree your life sucks. Children are a blessing rather you want it or not. Maybe this may change your mind on how you feel about having a child. But abortion would be totally wrong in this case. It's not the babies fault to have to suffer because of your negligence. If you don't want the child adoption is by far the best option. Don't kill a baby just because you dislike kids. Just think your parents could've made that decision to you....

I can't even believe that you got pregnant doing the thing that is biologically intended for producing offspring. Mind blown.