Please tell me where and will they perform it on a 21 year old? I've wanted my tubes tied since before I started my periods

I don't like pineapple. Am I terrible? No. I don't like dubstep. Am I terrible? No. I don't like children. Am I terrible? No.

Why is it so wrong to not want children? My husband and I don't want kids nor do we like them, but that doesn't make us terrible people. I've never been cruel to a child and can even have fun with them when we babysit or friends or family. In fact, my husband is wonderful kids and would honestly make a wonderful father. However, the thought of having kids of our own makes us both cringe. No one deserves to be called cruel just for not wanting to have kids. There are already too many people in this world. My cousin is from a family of five kids and her husband is from a family of fourteen kids. She is pregnant with her fourth kid. That is a LOT of new people being made from a very small source. My dad was one of ten kids. That's 29 kids from only three pairs of parents. That number more than makes up for a fair number of us who don't want kids. I can't tell you how many times I've heard the "Oh, you'll change your mind when you're older" or "But it's different when it's your own". I have known I don't want kids from the time I was a preteen. Younger than that even. I'm in my mid-20s and am still as anti-kid as ever. My husband originally wanted kids, but when I asked him why, he said, "I don't know. I've never thought about it". Then he did think about it and he realized that the only reason he wanted kids was because it's "just what you do when you grow up". "It's what people expect". When I opened his eyes to the fact that he had a real choice, he realized that he didn't actually want any and has taken the initiative to find a doctor who will perform a vasectomy. The reality is that he never wanted kids either. He had just accepted that it's just what you do. What kind of environment is that for a kid to grow up in? Why should a kid have to grow up with parents who don't want it? Now, there are several kids who belong to friends and family who would legally come to us if something happened to their parents. For some reason, I feel differently about that. My younger brothers, some young 2nd cousins, and the kids of a very close friend would all come to us if something happened to them and I love the little boogers to death and would do my very best to provide a stable home environment for them should the worst happen to their parents, but the idea of giving birth to and raising my own? Yuck.

I think you're the terrible one for being so judgemental.