Sorry OP, but you're probably going to end up losing this girl as friend. It's sad, but engagements tend to show peoples true colors and at least you now know she's a self-centered bitch. tbh she sounds like she's going to be a complete bridezilla which is about the most pathetic, ridiculous thing ever and a mentality I will NEVER understand. Run while you still can.

She ain't no friend.

we need an update!

"Friend"

If she's scheduled her wedding to be three days before yours, either you or she has chosen a day that falls during the work-week (unless of course you've chosen a holiday, which, let's be honest, is not a great idea either). Non-weekend weddings are not very popular among guests. This will probably sort itself out easily, assuming she doesn't cancel all over again.

"No". If you want to be more specific: "No. Everything has been paid for and set. I am not losing money because you changed YOUR date." If you want to be completely honest: "Hell ******* no."

Hopefully everyone will go to your true one, and skip her bullshit wedding. She doesn't seem so sure she knows what she wants. she might even cancel it again.

Try the following: "No."

This is happening to me too. You tell that b*tch hell to the no.

Hope you don't move your date.