By Fubar0906 - 19/05/2009 01:11 - United States

Today, I'm on vacation. I spent $4000 to surprise my boyfriend on a trip to Hawaii. We have been together over a year. Turns out, he hates the outdoors. He's mad at me for bringing him here and is upset at everything. He's in the room reading, I'm at the bar drinking $10 Mai Tai's. FML
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Same thing different taste

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You've been together over a year and you didn't know that he hates the outdoors? I gotta say YDI.

He seems like a jerk...any normal person would at least try to enjoy themselves when the significant other put in that much effort. Sorry, that sucks! On the upside you are in Hawaii!

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simplyabsurd 0

Your boyfriend is a complete loser. Dump his ass, and go out with me. I'll go anywhere you want!

You didn't know he didn't like the outdoors? Hrm, communication skills seem a bit low. I'd go back to the room and talk to him about what's up, likely something else is on his mind. To all the people who say "dump him for not liking the outdoors", how stupid can you be? FBoth Your Lives for lack of communicating. And, when a MAN is telling you that you are failing at communicating, you're doing something seriously wrong.

What a jerk. Hawaii doesn't count as the "outdoors." I mean you're laying on a sandy beach in the sun or by the pool, not hiking through the rocky mountains! Does he just hate sunlight? Besides, if someone spends $4000 trying to do something nice for you you should either a. tell them right away that you would not appreciate the gift so they can alter it or cancel the tickets (in this case) or b. suck it up and try to have fun. And yeah, better communication might be something you two would want to work on. But I don't know anyone who wouldn't enjoy a trip to Hawaii.

LuvPink 0

um the only reason someone would be mad about someone spending that much money on them is if they're cheating. so i would dump him before he dumps you.

brenna805 0

Sounds like you've got yourself a little bitch.

stephatwestern 0

What an unappreciative douche. You should dump his ass and find someone better.

Why on earth would you want to be with such a douche??!? Then again, if you have always been this nice, you might juste be at fault too: you've spoiled the bastard! always being a giver -to someone who is as ungrateful- will only worsen matters. You'd be better off with somenone who would appreciate you (even if it's just a bit) better.

What douche bag! You can enjoy the beach, with a good book. He sounds like a miserable bastard and you should dump him immediately.

fmlreaderr 0

That sucks... I guess you should have known but still, the thought is what counts... your bf's an idiot.