By Samantha - 15/06/2010 18:18 - United States

Today, I'm three months pregnant. Hours after the father of my baby bought me a wedding ring, he decided to get drunk and tell me that he doesn't see himself with me for the rest of his life, and doesn't really want to get married. Oh and that he hates my dog. FML
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SaturnE_fml 0

I'm assuming since this is an FML, she's heartbroken. I also assume she wants the child. The first thing, period, to worry about isn't if he wants to stay with _you_, it's does he see himself being an active and stable father? Will he visit regularly, not just on weekends, but after work too? will he take turns with you being the stay home parent on weekends so you both have a life? Will YOU be adult enough to sit beside him at the school play, watching your child together? Will you do everything you can to make sure you're allowing him to be an active father? Can you two both be friends for the rest of your lives, and more importantly stand up for each other against any future partners? If you can answer yes to all of this, your kid has a chance at a great, if different life. You have a chance to get back into the pond, still take care of yourself, and be choosy about your next crush. If the answer to any of those questions to you is "no", you need to sit down and decide what's more important, your convenience or the child's happiness. And you need to consider all aspects of being a parent. If any of them for him are no, you need to immediately start prepping yourself to be strong, independent and still desirable. You don't want to be alone, obviously, but you'll have to be until you find that perfect partner to share not only you, but your child with. Any other options are yours, but think about the child's life before you give birth, you're out of time then.

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justsayfuck 5

He wouldn't be the first guy being scared by marriage.. FYL though.

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skyeyez9 24

Everybody here saying " ABORT" just ignore them. It's easy for someone to say abort the kid when it isn't their child. And abortions can damage your insides to the point you can't have kids later if you decide to. Its your choice, but most people who do choose to end their pregnancy regret it later. They feel guilt, wonder what their kid would have become if they let him/her live.

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EvilDave 13

If you aren't going to raise it, shut the **** up.

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monster_tamer 11

Everyone has different viewpoints. Some women are better able to emotionally handle an abortion better than others. Each case is different. If OP decides to get an abortion, dump her fiance, and take her dog with her, that's perfectly good and legal. If she decides to keep the kid, that's fine too. Everyone makes choices.

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xlossofmex 0

it might not be conscious at that point but it still will become a baby most likely if it wasn't tampered with. Even if it's brain isn't fully developed yet just give it one month.

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SaturnE_fml 0

I'm assuming since this is an FML, she's heartbroken. I also assume she wants the child. The first thing, period, to worry about isn't if he wants to stay with _you_, it's does he see himself being an active and stable father? Will he visit regularly, not just on weekends, but after work too? will he take turns with you being the stay home parent on weekends so you both have a life? Will YOU be adult enough to sit beside him at the school play, watching your child together? Will you do everything you can to make sure you're allowing him to be an active father? Can you two both be friends for the rest of your lives, and more importantly stand up for each other against any future partners? If you can answer yes to all of this, your kid has a chance at a great, if different life. You have a chance to get back into the pond, still take care of yourself, and be choosy about your next crush. If the answer to any of those questions to you is "no", you need to sit down and decide what's more important, your convenience or the child's happiness. And you need to consider all aspects of being a parent. If any of them for him are no, you need to immediately start prepping yourself to be strong, independent and still desirable. You don't want to be alone, obviously, but you'll have to be until you find that perfect partner to share not only you, but your child with. Any other options are yours, but think about the child's life before you give birth, you're out of time then.

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sach22 0

He hates your dog :O your life is f****ed,quit him!!!

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FiveStar83 0

dudes an idiot. if you keep the baby. good luck.

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EvilDave 13

You deserve it for getting pregnant with a guy before being married to him. You don't want to end up a single mother, you shouldn't get pregnant before you are married and you shouldn't get married because you are pregnant.

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monster_tamer 11

And where do you get off being Mr. High-and-mighty?

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