By rosabelle91 - 17/06/2012 14:58 - Australia - Sydney

Today, I realised that my boyfriend calls me "bitch" more often than he calls me by my actual name. FML
I agree, your life sucks 32 446
You deserved it 14 793

Same thing different taste

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The only b word you should ever call a girl is beautiful, bitches love to be called beautiful.

Confront him and tell him you don't like it.

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bugmenotmofo 34

My advice for you? Dump him. He doesn't deserve you and you deserve someone better. If you think he will change... I'm sorry, but I don't think he will - if he doesn't respect you now, it's unlikely he ever will. Don't let him treat you this way. Best of luck :-)

Wow after reading this I realised it happens to me too.. :(

There is nothing "joking" or remotely funny about that. No decent human being calls a woman a "bitch". Ever. It is not funny. It is not an in-joke. It is rude, insensitive, and misogynistic. Your boyfriend does not respect you. He does not respect any woman. You are an idiot for not breaking up with him after the first time. You are an idiot for not breaking up with him after coming to this realization. And you are an idiot for not breaking up with him after he explained his "joke". YDI, for sure. Not the relationship you think you have now - the relationship you actually have, with a rude, uncaring, misogynistic asshole.

YDI for letting him call you that even once. Have some self respect and stand up for yourself.

ThisBeAUsername 6

Um YDI...you allow him to talk to you that way...you have to draw the line and decide whether you love and respect yourself more than you love him and dump the loser

316 --> you can't make those assumptions without meeting the guy... it's not always offensive. Calling someone A bitch usually is, but if they're saying you're THEIR bitch, it can actually be jokey and even affectionate.