By Anonymous - 24/11/2010 04:41 - United States

Today, I received my acceptance letter to one of the most prestigious universities in the US, as well as a nice scholarship. I was so proud of myself, I eagerly showed my dad, hoping he would shed a tear or two. His only words were, "Just get a job so you can get the hell out of my house." FML
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Same thing different taste

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ihateIRAQ 0

call me oldschool,but this is what I did when my dad told me to get out and get a job: 1. i moved out. 2.i got a job.

Geez, what crawled up his butt and died? Does he normally show support OP or does he not? If he doesn't then maybe you should have figured he'd respond this way? Be proud you did so well! Go celebrate with your friends instead! Many congratulations! :D

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CoachLlama 5

It never goes the way you play it out in your mind does it? I can't speak for all men, but we are not that complicated in my opinion. We are not mind readers. If you are fishing for a certain response you will need to take a direct approach. Something like "Dad, look I have worked hard all my life and now an important institution has acknowledged my hard work. How do you feel about this?". Then he can tell you how he really feels. It will be something like "Are you kidding me? I have worked my entire life to keep us all clothed, fed and off the street. The least you can do is make good grades.". Trust me, he will still tell his friends about how proud he is of you.

Illyssa_fml 4

Well, scholarship probably means you're gonna live on campus..so technically he's getting what he wants

Illyssa_fml 4

That's awesome congrats! Don't worry about your dad..my mom's the same way. I just think about how I'll have a better future without her

Congrats on your scholarship! I fought for decades to try and win my parent's approval that they so love to lavish on my siblings. When I finally let go and gave up, it felt great. Now I just laugh as they brag about my brother (whose only achievement in life was to spawn crotchfruit), while ignoring my successes. I know I've worked my butt off in college and in my career and have surpassed all of them in achievements, even though my achievements will never be recognized, let alone congratulated. And I know that deep down, they know it and it pisses them off. And that makes me happy.

love the term crotchfruit. unfortunately, spawning can be all that some relatives care about, no matter how happy or successful you are. as long as you are happy and take pride in your accomplishmens, though, screw them.

lar1685 0

my Dad did the same thing to me and now no degree just working, go to school and make more money than he, show him up and dont let him take you down

Cookie00Munsta 0

I call BS on the "one of the most prestigious" part. just sayin

Is he being bitter because you're expecting him to pay for that "prestigious university"?

ulicksam 0

If I spent years with someone that expected me to "shed a tear" every time they had good news, I'd get sick of it and want them out too. YDI.