No it's not

sarcasm or serious?

And some women find their periods just as gross as men do. And some guys don't care.

I know of very few men who think periods are disgusting... Lol that's the farther into detail that I'm going but - yeah haha

some women also feel a lot of pain while on their period. i know all of you will start saying it gets rid of cramps but sometimes its too painful to contemplate even starting.

At least, for my boyfriend, period sex is just fine, but anal is out of the question. Like he always says, "No poo-poo on the pee-pee."

2 way street lol just sayin

Just because they have a lack of memory doesn't make them stupid. you seem to be doing a pretty good job in that department, are you a goldfish?

Wait-- I'm confused. You just said goldfish aren't stupid and then asked if I was a goldfish because I'm stupid? Btw-- This was a popular quiz question off the Internet.

That's actually false about goldfish. Their memory lasts longer than just 5 seconds. You can actually train goldfish, if you have the patience.

Not everyone has the same symptoms. When I'm on mine I just feel bloated and sore which is easily fixed by a warm bath and only lasts the first and second day. Meanwhile my sister has horrible debilitating cramps (like yours) that she needs to take painkillers for.

Sex tends to make the cramps go away and it is usually what your body craves.. Whether you realize it or not. . Don't knock it till you try it! lol

even knowing that it gets rid of cramps wouldnt make me do it if i was sore.

I take a Midol for the cramps, and my birth control makes my period pretty light, so it doesn't get messy. But, like someone else said, not everyone is the same.

Don't worry about it. It's a completely personal preference for every woman. Some women feel hornier during their periods, and for some it relieves the pain from cramps. Some women are in too much pain, or are just grossed out. Either way, do (or don't do) what's right for you. Personally, for me, I don't have a problem with the blood. I don't like to be intimate during my period simply because I feel bloated, and my skin breaks out so I feel as far from sexy and attractive as possible. Even with sweet guys who didn't care, I couldn't relax enough to enjoy it because I was so self conscious.

Are you a webcam girl, #137? I would never have sex if I waited until I felt attractive.

Haha, no, I'm not a web cam girl. A little perverted that THAT is the first thing that comes to your mind! No girl ALWAYS feels attractive. But if you find a good guy, when he looks at you right, you will feel like the most sexy, beautiful, sexy girl in the world, even if you're not.

Except its dangerous to leave a tampon in while you sleep.

56-- maybe her flow is way too heavy to wear a tampon, maybe she is one of the rare sufferers of TSS, maybe she just prefers pads. She told her husband, not her fault.

#64 I'd like to hear your reasoning on this. There are risks that come with using tampons in general, and that doesn't change just because you're sleeping.

Yes it does. You're not supposed to leave a tampon in for more than 8 hours at a time. Even if you change it right before bed, you can easily sleep over 8 hours. It's a lot safer to sleep with a pad.

How do you think you get toxic shock syndrome? From leaving a tampon in too long.

That depends on the woman's flow. In my experiences, anyway, my flow is so heavy that I can't afford to NOT wear a heavy-flow tampon -- in addition to a heavy-flow pad -- when I go to bed. If I don't use both during my first three days, it usually results in incredibly-bloody sheets and ruined underwear. It's gotten so bad that I have to resort to wearing black undies or constantly bleach my white pairs just to avoid severe staining (and this is coming from using a Super + or Ultra-size tampon, which hold 15 to 18 grams each). For those with light or regular flows, it's not too big of a problem to use only a panty liner or such, but for those with extremely heavy flows, there's really no other choice other than the Pill or wearing adult diapers.

165 - You should check out menstrual cups. They hold a lot of liquid before they start leaking and they're much safer than tampons because they're made of medical grade silicone (I believe you can wear up to 24 hours before TSS becomes an issue). Even on my heaviest days, I only have to wear a thin liner while I sleep. They're a godsend!

Not everybody likes to wear them! That is why there are choices!

Naaah. Mooncup all the way. It's a lot more sanitary than a tampon, and totally comfy once you get used to it ^^

How is that disrespectful? Depending on their relationship, it may be perfectly normal for him to do that and for her to enjoy it.

not disrespectful at all...

Well you are too young, which you are, to understand or you must have met some feminist on the way. don't worry is not disrespectful at all but in this case the op clearly warned her husband and is just stupid

What would meeting a feminist have to do with what they said? You're view on feminism is seriously ****** if you think that way.

There's this thing called "consent." It is necessary for a guy to attain it before doing sexual things with a woman even if they're married. He obviously didn't ask for consent before putting his hand in her pants, hence the disrespect.