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It's mostly f his life
I was in a similar situation a while ago. My girlfriend dumped me and she got together with one of my friends within 2 days. They decided not to tell me but I found out pretty quickly anyway. For good reason I was pretty pissed at her, however I decided not to be a jackass about it. After about 2 weeks he dumped her and she came to me for comfort. She was sad but I still reminded her that I didn't like what she had done, but when I did she got mad and acted like I was just trying to make her feel like shit.
Ugh! I can't stand people who do something wrong then act all indignant and victimised when the wronged party points it out at totally appropriate times - "Oh, stop trying to make me feel guilty/what's done is done/let it go/some other dismissive bullshit designed to dodge a guilty conscience rather than just accepting they are shitty human beings". < / rant > Your ex is a ******* *****, end of story. FYL, Tubasaurus!
that's sad. maybe u 2 should get back 2gether when he's not in pain nemore.
I'm gonna go with YDI on this one, simply cause of the fact that he dumped you a long time ago and you're still talking to him. Not to mention you're COMFORTING the bastard. You should stay away from him and learn the difference between being nice and being true to yourself. 'Nuff said.
Staying friends with an ex is one thing, but you've spent the past 3 years harboring feelings for someone that didn't want you. And if that wasn't bad enough, the only thing this guy sounds deserving of is a swift kick in the ass -- not your time or comfort. No matter what he's going through right now, this guy should be begging you for forgiveness because he should be able to finally see what he put you through; not acting like some unique and beautiful snowflake that no one else could possibly relate to, least of all you. YDI, because while this guy is a jerk to you, it's only because you've allowed him to be. I really hope the fact that you posted this here means that you realize all of this now and won't be tolerating any more of his bs.
I totally agree with #49. I would have said it slightly sweeter lol but maybe tough love is what you need. I get that everyone reacts to pain differently, But three years its a LONG time. Eventually you should have realized that he was never going to get back with you.And I sure hope you didn't blow off guys waiting for your ex. If he's saying that you don't know how it feels,then he didn't think much of your guys' relationship.So I don't think this is an FML because even though it hurts this is the best for you. You can move on now.
Technically, you DON'T know how he feels. Were you and him about to get married and he dumped you at the last minute? Nahh
And how do you know that?
Because she said he dumped her 3 years ago and not "broke off their engagement 3 years ago" or something similar...
You can't judge a person's level of feelings just from that. Just because they were planning to marry, it makes them more in love? Apparently not, seeing as how the fiance left.
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why do you still love him when he left you for someone else?
Karma hit him right in the face!