By Carrie_Chaos - 23/05/2016 20:16 - United States - Fresno

Today, I started dating my best friend, who is Hispanic. I told my family the good news and all my father had to say to me was, "I will allow you to date him, but you should really think about settling with someone your own kind." FML
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Same thing different taste

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What a jackass. We are one kind: human. At least you know what kind of mindset your dad has now :/ I'm so sorry. I wish you the best in your relationship. Don't let his small-minded thinking get in the way of that.

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Tell him to wake up and see the 21st century, it's not the 1950's anymore.

JohnTheDonJuan 11

So if it were 1950, you'd have no issue with this? Cultural relativism is not an excuse for racism. If it's wrong now, it was wrong then... I personally don't have an opinion here, but I dislike hypocrisy.

blueyekai 17

He's not being a hypocrite, it was more common to be racist in the 1950's

Your dad sounds like a jerk. At least he's not trying to break you two up.

**** that interracial shit. Your dad is right you idiot

That's exactly how my family is. I'm so sorry about that,wish you the best of luck

Most parents say that. it's more a matter of fraying from the norm of family history usually.

Ah, I don't know all the parents of the world, but I don't think "most" say these types of things. At least I really hope most parents aren't racists. People who are like this need to grow up and get their heads out of the 1950s, it's such a stupid, archaic way of thinking.

burgermike92 17

Race and ethnicity should never determine who a person can be in a relationship with. Be happy with who you want to be with.

Good for you dating your best friend is amazing

Your boyfriend deserves applause for getting out of the Friend Zone.

Out of the friend zone and into the unaccepted-by-racist-family zone.. I don't think there's much of a win here.